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1) Maintain an air of mystery around you.
2) Be simple and elegant.
3) Don't try to make him jealous.
4) Challenge their beliefs from time to time.
5) Don't interfere too much in their plans.
It is better to be the Scorpio man's friend than his enemy. This man can be very dangerous when he feels cornered.
You are one of the most attractive signs of the zodiac, and can captivate lovers without even trying. The chances of you being the only one he is interested in are remote.
He has an army of female admirers and women who want to be with him. So be prepared to bring out all your qualities and get him to like you. Your main advantage is the fact that you know he is in Scorpio, so you have the opportunity to determine what he might be interested in.
First of all, what you have to understand is that the man born in this sign has incredible intuition, and is able to see what is behind people's masks. Seduction and manipulation do not work with him.
He will see right away that you are trying to trick him. Don't interact with this guy and at the same time think about seducing him. Focus on showing him who you really are. If you do the opposite, you will fail.
In love, the game should be more of a chase. He likes women who are hard to get. You will have a better chance of him liking you if he has to work to earn your love.
Those who try hard to like him never have a chance to arouse this guy's curiosity. He also gets bored when someone tries everything to get him interested.
It is essential that Scorpio sees you as an equal, as someone who has only his own interests and wants nothing from him.
This man is known for always wanting to be in control. That is why he always needs to be in a familiar environment.
If you go on a date with the Scorpio man, choose a place he has visited before. Or better yet, let him choose where you will go. He is an excellent organiser anyway, so he will take you somewhere nice.
You will be surprised by his choice. You can think of anything from a romantic dinner to a drink on a city rooftop.
However, all this does not mean that you should not have a say in the matter. You can disagree. But make a strong case for your objection. You don't like it when people don't know why you do or say certain things.
If he likes to be in control, it does not mean that he is not flexible. He always agrees with the suggestions of others, as long as his authority is not questioned.
This guy likes to keep his distance. It may take him a while to open up and trust you. As soon as you are in his inner circle, he will become the most loyal and warm person.
But don't rush into all this. Don't stress him with calls and messages. Also, it is advisable to avoid getting too involved in his or her personal life or making too many comments about how he or she lives his or her life.
Let him reveal his qualities on his own. Admire and respect him for his choices. Be aware that he is a person who always remembers if he has been insulted, and seeks revenge whenever someone hurts him. He may break up with his partner suddenly, and he gets angry very easily.
Independent, the Scorpio man's freedom needs to be respected. He is also ambitious, so he will want to be with a supportive person who encourages him to fulfil his hopes and dreams.
If you are that person, make sure you also have your own life goals. This guy doesn't like people who are not decisive and don't know what to do with themselves.
Showing him that you are independent is one of the main attractions for the Scorpio man. Have ambitions and tell him about your career. He will love you for it.
When talking about theirs, make sure you sound interested and supportive. Gain his trust by making him feel safe around you. Keep in mind that he wants to be in control of everything. He would not like to see that you know everything about his insecurities.
He needs to be in power all the time, so he wears a mask that only shows toughness and strength. That is also why he is secretive and does not reveal too much about himself.
But in the meantime, he will want to know everything about you. If you question him too much, he will become suspicious and wonder what your real motives might be.
Be reserved. Keep a cool head and don't get too excited about finding out who he or she really is. Remember that playing with a Scorpio is very risky.
He's tough and he pays attention to every little detail. This guy likes mystery more than anything else in the world. So don't tell him everything about you from the first moment you meet.
Let me look for more information. You want to be an enigma for him to discover. This way, he will pay much more attention to everything you have to say. And that's what you want, after all, isn't it?
The most sexual sign of the zodiac, Scorpio is passionate and a great lover. But this doesn't mean you have to reveal too much of your sexuality when you are around him. Keep your cool and keep conversations light. A little flirting is enough.
Knowing when it is time to pursue and when to let go
A successful way to make a Scorpio man fall in love with you is to catch his eye and listen carefully to what he has to say. It subtly suggests that there may be something going on between you.
You like to know that people want you. And this goes not only for Scorpios, but also for other signs of the zodiac.
Very honest and direct, the Scorpio man will let you know immediately if he likes you or not. With this man there are no ulterior motives. He is quite frank and doesn't like to waste too much of his time or yours.
However, if he has not informed you right away that he is not interested at all, there is a good chance that you will get it in time. Pay attention to whether he talks to you more than to anyone else, or if he looks you in the eye from time to time.
Don't chase it if there's nothing there. You don't want to be too disappointed. You should know better than anyone when someone likes you, or just wants to keep things cool and relaxed.
The Scorpio man will never fall in love with someone who has lied to him. Or someone who likes to make fools of others. So be very careful how you act around him.
Be honest and don't hesitate to tell him things you don't like about yourself. He will trust you more and appreciate that you don't hesitate to be honest and open. If you lie, he will know and will not forget it.
Remember that he can read people like open books. Don't think for a second that you can get away with white lies, because you won't. Not only will he find you out, but you will also lose all respect. Not only will he find you out, but you will also lose all his respect. He will never be interested in you again.
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