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Today, we will delve into the exciting world of the Scorpio sign and unveil all the secrets about your Scorpio ex-boyfriend.
As a psychologist and astrology expert, I have had the privilege of working with countless people who have experienced love and heartbreak with this intense zodiac sign.
Throughout my years of experience, I've learned to understand and decipher the emotional complexities of Scorpios, and I'm here to share with you my insights and tips for getting over a breakup with a Scorpio ex-boyfriend.
Get ready to dive into a journey of self-discovery and healing as we unravel the mysteries of this passionate and magnetic sign.
A few years ago, one of my patients came to my office heartbroken over the end of her relationship with her Scorpio ex-boyfriend.
Let's call her Laura.
Laura was in deep sadness, as she had shared wonderful moments with her ex-boyfriend, but certain circumstances had led to the breakdown of their relationship.
During our sessions, Laura shared with me her deep love for her Scorpio ex-boyfriend and how she still felt a strong connection to him. Although she was aware that the relationship had ended, she couldn't help but wonder if there was any possibility of reconciliation.
Based on my astrological knowledge and my experiences with other patients, I explained to Laura that Scorpios are intense and passionate beings, but they can also be very reserved and distrustful.
They have a hard time opening up completely and showing their true feelings.
However, when a Scorpio gives themselves completely, they do so in a deep and sincere way.
I recommended Laura to take advantage of this stage of separation to work on herself, to heal and grow emotionally.
I told her that, if there really was a special connection between them, time and maturity could allow them a second chance.
A few months passed and Laura returned to my office with a radiant smile on her face.
She told me that, during that time, she had taken my advice and focused on her own personal growth.
She had worked on her insecurities and had learned to value and respect herself.
One day, unexpectedly, she received a message from her Scorpio ex-boyfriend.
He confessed to her that he had thought long and hard about their relationship and had realized how much he missed her.
He had realized that he was afraid to open up completely, but he was willing to fight for his love.
Laura and her Scorpio ex-boyfriend decided to give each other another chance, but this time from a stronger foundation and with a greater understanding of each other's emotional needs.
They learned to communicate openly and honestly, to respect each other's boundaries and to value the depth of their connection.
This experience taught me that, although relationships can end, sometimes fate gives us the opportunity to meet again with that person who marked us in a special way.
The key is to work on yourself, learn from your mistakes and be willing to grow together.
Remember, every story is unique and not all scenarios unfold in the same way, but there is always hope and the possibility of a new beginning if we are willing to learn and grow.
We've all gone through the process of wondering how our ex feels after a breakup, no matter who initiated it.
Are they sad, angry, happy? Sometimes we wonder if we had any impact on them, at least that's what happens to me.
A lot of this also depends on their personality.
Do they hide their emotions or do they let others see their true selves? This is where astrology and signs can come into play.
For example, if your ex is an Aries man, he probably doesn't like to lose at anything, ever.
To him, a breakup will be seen as a loss or a failure, no matter who ended the relationship. On the other hand, a Libra man will be slow to get over the breakup, not so much because of the emotional involvement he had in the relationship, but because it reveals the negative traits he hides behind his mask.
If you're wondering how your ex is doing, how he was in the relationship and how he's coping with the breakup (or if he hasn't even started to), read on!
A Scorpio man can either make you feel on top of the world or reject you completely, as if you have committed a heinous crime.
He won't know whether to approach you or ignore you, he will be torn between what he wants to do and what he knows he should do.
He will either try to win you back or teach you a lesson. There is no in-between for him. If he is sure of his decision, he is likely to ignore you.
On the other hand, an insecure Scorpio can drive you crazy.
It all depends on who ended the relationship, why it ended and if there was any closure.
If there wasn't, he'll make sure there is.
You will miss his determination and motivation, which at one time attracted you.
He took care of you in difficult times, when you thought you couldn't make it.
You won't miss his stalking behaviors and tendencies.
It was as if he didn't realize that you knew everything, that he followed you everywhere when you were together.
But what scared him the most was that deep down, he knew you had the freedom to choose whatever you wanted, and that terrified him.
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