Tips on how to fall in love with the Scorpio zodiac man

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Be honest with a Scorpio man

 Truth matters a lot to a Scorpio. They can't have any relationship with anyone who has cheated on them or played them for fools. Forgive and forget is not in their dictionary.

 They would probably cut you off forever if you have given them the opportunity to not trust you. You can never get away with any kind of lies in front of a Scorpio, no matter how good you think you are at lying. If they find you out, they will cut you out of their lives forever.

One good thing about a Scorpio man is that he will tolerate honesty and truth no matter how painful it is. He can forgive sincere people. So, if you have ever done wrong, it is better to confess it at the time rather than hide it from him. Eventually he will know.

 They are fans of truth and honesty and you could win him your way if you are totally honest.


Be a little mysterious if you want to get his attention.

 Scorpio men find it very difficult but attractive to romance a woman who has a mysterious aura about herself. They respect dignified, elegant, controlled and intelligent women.

Do not reveal little secrets about yourself easily, as this will fascinate him. He will be attracted to you and will want to get to know you better.

 Solving difficult puzzles and uncovering hidden truths is one of his most beloved passions. Challenge is the key to getting a Scorpio man's attention.

Make yourself a hard woman to get. This not only intrigues them, but will draw them to you like a magnet.

 If you allow yourself to be known as an open book, a Scorpio man will quickly lose interest in you. But remember to be sincere and honest at all times.

 You can send him text messages that will help him get to know you better. Don't take too long with your text messages. Short and to the point text messages will intrigue him.


Scorpio men hate sympathy seekers.

 One thing a Scorpio man can't stand is a weak or weak-willed woman. They like a strong personality and anyone who appears cheap or weak will lose interest.

 A Scorpio man is looking for a woman of substance. Be bold and clear about your aspirations in life. Discover her weakness and highlight it if you want to win her attraction.

 It could be a perfectly prepared good meal or it could be a woman who excels in her career. Don't let anyone push him or take him for granted. Such character traits are often noticed by a Scorpio man and he will respect a woman who knows her mind and leads her way with class and dignity.

 A Scorpio man may test you several times to see if you are capable of standing up for yourself. It takes a while to come to a conclusion about someone - winning the heart of a Scorpio man is not easy!

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You can attract a Scorpio man by making sex challenging.

 A Scorpio man loves challenges and the same is true for sex as well. You have to play a little, make it hard to get.

They soon lose interest or get bored of women who are always available and eager for sex.

 Wear provocative clothes, but not too revealing, as they love to leave something to the imagination. Make him wait as long as you can for sex and they will be super turned on.

You should send strong signals that you are sexually attracted to him. You can send him short, but flirtatious text messages that contain just a few hints. They are people who are not very clear with their words. They prefer women who can read their minds.

 For them, it's all about actions and eye contact. But once they have set their eyes and hearts on you, you have won the battle. They are extremely loyal partners.

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Never tell him what to do

 One thing a Scorpio man hates is being told what to do. They will soon feel insecure if they feel that someone else is controlling them.

A Scorpio man loves to feel in personal control of the situation. It is very rare for them to reveal their inner insecurities to anyone or ask anyone for help. They would do so only to someone they admire.

 To win a Scorpio man's heart and his confidence at first, you must stay true to yourself.

 They are also quick to misjudge people and especially those who are just trying to help. An affair with a Scorpio man is like playing with fire. Only slowly can you suggest or tell them what you think, it may take months before they trust you completely.


How to attract a Scorpio man for sex

 You cannot seduce or woo a Scorpio man with parlour techniques or fake seduction. They are completely disillusioned with fake behaviour. You need to present your true and authentic self. This seduces them more than anything else.

 A Scorpio man hates anything fake. A good haircut, fancy jewellery, branded clothes and perfect make-up will only make the Scorpio run away from you.

 What attracts a Scorpio man: You must have beautiful skin, a healthy body and a clean body. Your nails, hair and teeth should be clean, healthy and disease free.


Let a Scorpio man be in control

 Being in control of the situation is what a Scorpio man loves. Let him plan his holidays, as they are excellent planners.

 You have the right to voice your objections and they are not rigid, as long as you give them clear reasons and alternative suggestions. They are also flexible, but should agree completely with your point of view.

 Let your Scorpio man drive the car as this makes him feel totally in control. Letting them be in control is like being in their comfort zone.


How to deal with the temper of a Scorpio man

 A Scorpio man has a fiery temper. They can get very rude and mean if they are angry. They are often vindictive and will go to extremes to hurt or see someone hurt in fights.

 They will bring up things from the past and say hurtful things to you. The best thing to do at that time is to keep quiet as they also cool down quickly. Only then do they become receptive to reasoning.

Don't tell them things you don't mean, as they have a very good memory and will always remember those words. But the good thing is that they only show their anger to those they consider close to them. A Scorpio man will only yell and fight with you if he feels that you are close to him.

 A Scorpio man also has a tendency to bottle up emotions and then explode one day over trivial matters.

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Don't ask a Scorpio man about his goals.

 A Scorpio man hates to reveal his ideas and plans to achieve his goals in life. No matter how sweet you are to him, he will not feel comfortable enough to share his goals, at least in the first few years of knowing him.

He has to build total trust in you to do so. Even if you are very sweet to him and try to entice him with your secret plans, he will quickly find out and instantly exclude you. Instead, he can observe how methodically you work or plan to achieve your goals.

 For a weight loss goal, you can observe how they have made changes to their diet. You will be able to see their goals in the results and the results will speak volumes about what they have aspired to in life.


Be with him in body and mind

 A Scorpio man prefers undivided attention. Whenever they converse with you, be sure to make eye contact, share your opinions and fully demonstrate your interest in him. Don't multiply tasks in between, such as texting, as this will slow them down.

Many people consider a Scorpio man to be rude, cold and distant, but they are wonderful and stable once you get to know them. They allow someone to enter their world after much speculation, but once they do, they have a charmed life with a Scorpio.

 They are intelligent beings. You cannot attract them by being sweet but by showing them your own goal-oriented approach to life. Never force a Scorpio man into your circle of friends.

 A Scorpio man looks at the world in black or white and grey is not a shadow in his dictionary. They either like someone or they don't.

 It's a tough personality, sure, but you can have the best relationships with a Scorpio man.

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