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6 Ways to Be More Positive and Attract Good People into Your Life

Learn to be a positive and cheerful person to attract more quality people into your life. Discover how happiness and fulfillment can become your constant companions....
Author: Patricia Alegsa
28-08-2025 11:13


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Table of Contents

  1. How to Attract Amazing People into Your Life?
  2. Hello, yes, I’m talking to you
  3. Quick Tip: Practice Gratitude
  4. Move Forward Little by Little
  5. Move and Change Your Mood
  6. The Power of a Smile
  7. Don’t Fall into the “Crab Bucket” Trap
  8. Do Something Kind Today
  9. Looking for New Friendships?
  10. Advice from a Specialist on the Subject

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Hello! 😊 I’m so glad you’re here looking to become a more positive person and attract wonderful people into your life. Let’s dive into these ideas and tips so you can achieve that magnetism you desire!


How to Attract Amazing People into Your Life?



Here are the six essential steps I always suggest to my clients when they want to surround themselves with good energy and good people:

  • Cultivate a friendly and welcoming attitude: Greet others, smile, be polite. Something so simple can change anyone’s day (including your own).

  • Participate in social activities: Join groups that interest you, try new events, and don’t be afraid to chat with strangers.

  • Practice active listening: Pay genuine attention to others. This creates real and deep connections.

  • Be generous with your time and skills: Support others, share what you know without expecting anything in return.

  • Cultivate optimism: Learn to see the good even on tough days. Be grateful for the little things and you’ll see big changes.

  • Show your authentic self: Allow yourself to be you. There’s nothing more attractive than a genuine person who speaks from the heart.



Did you know I’ve given talks where people are surprised by the step of showing vulnerability? Many believe you have to be perfect to attract others, but it’s actually the opposite!


Hello, yes, I’m talking to you



We all deal with repetitive thoughts. What we think affects our relationships, our decisions, and even our daily mood.

Many times those thoughts are negative and put us in a loop of self-sabotage. I’ve seen this a lot in my practice: people who only see the bad end up attracting more of the same. 😟

That’s why changing your perspective is fundamental. It’s not magic, but there are concrete steps that are easy to remember:

  • Be grateful every day for something, no matter how small.

  • Visualize positive situations (like that client who visualized job interviews until their dream job arrived).

  • Look for solutions instead of focusing on the problem.

  • Master your inner dialogue so it doesn’t sabotage you.

  • Surround yourself with optimistic people: positivity is contagious.

  • Adopt a growth mindset. Everything can be learned, even being happier.



See? Being positive isn’t a matter of luck or genetics; it’s an attitude you can train.


Quick Tip: Practice Gratitude



Make a list of things you’re grateful for. From your comfy bed, your job, to the barista’s smile. Value your body, which allows you to live each day.

An exercise I highly recommend is sharing this list with someone else. Send three reasons to be grateful every morning. By doing this, you not only reinforce gratitude, but also create a much more meaningful relationship.

Do it for a week and let me know if you notice the change! 😄


Move Forward Little by Little



Breaking negative thought patterns takes practice. Something I often suggest:
Every time you catch an inner criticism, respond with two positive affirmations. That way, you take two steps forward for every step back.

Don’t expect quick miracles. Emotional growth requires patience, but it’s so worth it!


Move and Change Your Mood



The mind and body are deeply connected. Have you ever noticed that when you straighten your back and lift your head, you feel different? Try it—even right now. 🏃‍♀️

If optimism is hard for you, get up, stretch your arms, walk around. Try yoga or any sport—science backs it up.

We all have bad days. That’s okay. If you want to know more about how to accept those days without guilt, I invite you to read this article I wrote: It’s Okay to Feel Defeated Even If Everyone Tells You to Stay Positive.


The Power of a Smile



Smiling (even if it feels a bit forced at first) can boost your mood almost instantly. Dozens of my clients who have tried it have confirmed this.

Do it while working, driving, even at the supermarket. You’ll see how people react—and at the same time, you’ll lift your own spirits too.

Want to go deeper into expressing emotions in a healthy way? Here’s another useful article:
11 Ways to Express and Manage Your Emotions Better


Don’t Fall into the “Crab Bucket” Trap



Have you heard the story of crabs in a bucket? When one tries to escape, the others grab it and pull it back down.

If there are people in your life who constantly bring down your mood—watch out! Try changing the conversation or, if necessary, seek out people who lift you up.

If you’re interested in exploring how to distance yourself from those who don’t add value to your life, I suggest reading this: Is It Necessary to Distance Yourself? How to Avoid Toxic People.


Do Something Kind Today



Helping others takes you out of your own problems and fills you with positive energy. Compliment a coworker, donate your time, help with small tasks. Trust me—these acts of kindness come back multiplied.

When things get tough, remember: your attitude determines whether you see a challenge or an opportunity. And every little gesture counts. 🌼


Looking for New Friendships?



Here are more fresh ideas for meeting people and maintaining beautiful friendships:
7 Ways to Make New Friends and Strengthen Old Ones


Advice from a Specialist on the Subject



Dr. Carlos Sánchez, a specialist in personal development, shared his vision on positivity with me. He told me something I never forget:
"Being aware of your thoughts is the first step. Our minds, without us realizing it, fill up with self-criticism. Learn to catch them and replace them with constructive thoughts."

Here are his six most practical tips for filling yourself with good vibes:

  1. Focus on the good: Every day, reflect on three things you’re grateful for.
  2. Watch your language: Eliminate negative words. Speak kindly to yourself and others.
  3. Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself kindly even when you fail. We’re all human.
  4. Surround yourself with positive people: Seek out those who inspire and motivate you.
  5. Do things that make you happy: Read, paint, exercise… Whatever sparks up your day.
  6. Cultivate empathy: Try to see the world through others’ eyes. It improves everything: your relationships and your attitude.


By implementing these tips, you’ll see how your environment and mood transform for the better.

Are you going to start applying any of these today? Tell me about it! Remember: when you shine, the world lights up with you. 🌟



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  • I love painting and drawing. I would like to have a companion. Where can I find such a person?

    If you're looking for a buddy to share your passion for painting and drawing with, there are several ways you can find people who share similar interests. Here are six suggestions for meeting positive people who share your love of art:

    1. Art groups and workshops: Join local art groups, workshops or courses in your area. This will give you a chance to meet people who are interested in the same art forms as you.

    2. Online communities: Join online communities and forums focused on artists and creativity. Here you can exchange ideas, inspire others and possibly form friendships with like-minded individuals.

    3. Art Exhibitions and Events: Visit art exhibitions, galleries or other events where local artists gather. These venues often provide opportunities to connect with other creatives.

    4. Social media: Use social media platforms such as Instagram, Facebook or Pinterest to share your own artwork and find others who have similar interests. Follow hashtags such as #artistsoninstagram or #artcommunity to connect with like-minded people.

    5. Local ads: Place an ad in local newspapers, community boards or online platforms stating you are looking for a painting or drawing group in your area.

    6. Ask around: Talk to friends, family and acquaintances about your interest in painting and drawing. Perhaps they know someone who is also interested or can refer you to relevant groups or events.

    Remember that it is important to be open to new people and experiences. Be positive, approachable and willing to actively participate in communities so you can attract people who share the same passion as you. Good luck finding a buddy to share your love of art with!

  • What to do if colleagues, wanting to have my vote on some matter, first add me to a group, but when they don't get my vote, they remove me from that group and then add me back to the group again.

    Hello! ? I understand that being added to groups just to have your voice heard, and then being removed, can be frustrating and hurtful. It's natural to feel confused and maybe a little excluded. ?

    From my experience in both psychology and interpersonal relationships, I can say that such behavior from others often stems from unclear intentions or a lack of respect. What you can do is:

    1. Set your boundaries ✋ – You can clearly say that you feel uncomfortable with this kind of treatment and that you expect respect and honesty in communication.
    2. Consider others' motivations ? – Do these people really need your input, or are they just using you? If it's the latter, you can limit your availability to such groups.
    3. Take care of your emotions ? – Remember, your worth doesn't depend on whether someone accepts you in a group or not. It's worth surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are.
    4. Manage your “voice” wisely ?️ – You don't always have to engage where you're not treated with proper respect. Your opinion is valuable and deserves to be taken seriously.

    And now, a fun astrology fact! ? If you can tell me your zodiac sign, I can help you better understand how to stay assertive and positive in such relationships, as well as how to attract good, loyal people into your life.

    How do you feel about these tips? Would you like me to help you build stronger self-confidence so you don’t allow yourself to be treated like an object? ?

    I’m waiting for your sign and more info if you want ?✨

  • What actions can Libras take to effectively defend their peace and boundaries in situations when they are being manipulated by others?

    Dear Libra ♎️,

    Your request for consultation is very important, especially for people like you who naturally value harmony, yet can become targets of manipulation due to your empathy and desire to avoid conflicts. Here are detailed tips to help you effectively defend your peace and boundaries while maintaining your authentic, gentle nature:

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    ### 1. Awareness of your own boundaries – the foundation of self-protection ?
    Libras need to clearly define what is acceptable to them and what already violates their comfort and peace. Write down your boundaries – emotional, time-related, social – so that in a moment of crisis you have a reference point. Example: “I do not agree to anyone using my voice without respect” or “I expect my presence to be taken seriously.”

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    ### 2. Assertive communication – express yourself with respect and calm ?️
    Assertiveness is the key to effectively defending your rights. As a Libra, you can combine gentleness with firmness. Use "I feel," "I expect" statements, rather than accusations like "you always."
    Example: “I feel hurt when I am added and removed from groups without explanation. Please treat me with respect.”

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    ### 3. Techniques for letting go and emotional distancing ?️
    Manipulation often causes emotional chaos. Learn to mentally “detach” your emotions from the situation, for example through meditation, mindfulness practices, or visualizing a protective shield that separates you from negative influences and helps you stay calm.

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    ### 4. Energy management and choosing your social environment ?
    Observe which relationships and groups provide you with positive support and which drain you. You have every right to limit contact with people who manipulate or do not respect your time and energy. Create a space around you full of respect and balance.

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    ### 5. External support – talk, share, seek help ?
    Don’t be afraid to ask for support from loved ones, friends, or even professionals like therapists or coaches. Sometimes a conversation helps you see the situation from a distance and find the most effective strategies.

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    ### 6. Strengthening positive affirmations and self-awareness ?
    Consciously repeat affirmations that build your inner strength and protect you from manipulation:
    - “My boundaries are important and deserve respect.”
    - “I deserve peace and harmonious relationships.”
    - “I have the right to say ‘no’ and take care of myself.”

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    Dear Libra, your nature makes you a mediator and a spirit of peace, but you have the right and must learn effective self-defense as well. This is not a contradiction – it’s a harmonious balance that will allow you to maintain both peace and the respect of others. ✨⚖️

    Would you like me to help you prepare specific, personalized phrases, conversation scenarios, or relaxation techniques that you can implement in daily life? Or perhaps you want more support in building your assertiveness as a Libra?

    I’m here to support you every step of the way. ??

    With tenderness and light,
    Alegsa ?

I am Patricia Alegsa

I have been writing horoscope and self-help articles professionally for over 20 years.

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