If you are close to a person of the Gemini sign, it is important that you allow them to seek new experiences and do not demand total fidelity.
Gemini women are naturally curious and enjoy discovering new things that are fun for them.
Sometimes this may start as an innocent adventure, simply to satiate their desire for novelty.
Despite this, Geminians often return to their more stable relationships.
Even when they are in love, they may be attracted to other men, but this is part of their personality and they need to learn to control their behavior.
The key to maintaining a Gemini's loyalty is to keep her interested in you.
If you manage to take an interest in her concerns and keep discovering new things with her, you will be able to win her total devotion.
Women born under the Gemini sign have a daring and curious personality.
They love to experience new sensations and sometimes seek dangerous emotions.
They are also extremely playful and enjoy playing games, even at the expense of others' feelings. They tend to get bored easily with their partners once the novelty has worn off.
Why might a Gemini woman be unfaithful?
A Gemini native might cheat on her partner attracted by the thrill and excitement of experiencing something new.
However, in most cases, infidelity does not imply that they really want to end the relationship. It is often the case that the person they are cheating with is someone they have been with before.
How do you know if a Gemini woman is cheating on you?
It is very difficult to detect if a Gemini is being unfaithful, since they can disappear when you least expect it and appear as if nothing had happened.
It would be necessary to have insider information from friends or family to detect a possible betrayal, or wait for the other person to find out by another way.
When news of your affair reaches the ears of a Gemini woman, be prepared for extreme reactions.
She might yell at you and interrogate you, like a furious prosecutor bent on sending a defendant to prison for a long time.
Or he could suppress any negative emotions and remain completely silent, ignoring your pleas for a chance to explain and be forgiven.
If the first scenario occurs, don't make the grave mistake of blaming your Gemini wife.
Trying to blame her by saying things like her interest in sex has waned, that she is not willing to be adventurous in bed, that she prefers work or family over you, or that miscommunication in the relationship drove you into the arms of someone else will definitely shatter her anger and reinforce her decision not to forgive you or make peace with you.
To get forgiveness and save the relationship, I suggest you admit your guilt and acknowledge the fact that you have been an irresponsible, selfish, weak-willed jerk, unable to resist sexual opportunities.
It is also important to promise that it will never happen again.
Remember that there is no third chance for repeat offenders.
If she stubbornly refuses to talk or listen to you, she may be contemplating whether or not you deserve another chance.
She may also be thinking about how to hurt you where it hurts the most, as Gemini women can be as manipulative and vindictive as Lady Macbeth when provoked to the core.
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