On the road to winning the interest of a Scorpio man, there is one major problem, which stands in front of you, and anyone else who tries to approach him. What could this major obstacle be, you ask? Nothing too complicated, simply the fact that there are a billion other individuals who are also trying to get what you are after.
In other words, the competition is so fierce and so numerous, that you will have to use all your tactics and advantages, the big ones, the small ones, the ones you only bring out when the situation is life and death. For you have one advantage, and that is that you are aware of their zodiacal ancestry.
1) Take the initiative without him noticing.
2) You will need to be action-oriented to attract their attention.
3) Use romantic surprises, smells and lights.
4) Be verbal about your qualities and then demonstrate them.
5) Don't ask too many questions.
With a Scorpio man, the usual tried and tested techniques will not work, and will only lead you down a path of no return. Trying to get him to abandon his sense of self and become yours will not only annoy him, but will cause him to perceive you as a threat.
Playing hard to get and using any means at your disposal, just to get her attention, is something that only a certain type of woman will do. And this type of woman does not suit you at all.
Instead, he tries to act in ways that give him incentives to really play and take the initiative, with or without being aware of it.
Generally, he will quickly realise that you are trying to kill two birds with one stone, get his attention while feeding his ego, and he will greatly appreciate it.
Moreover, when courting this man, never cross the boundaries, because he has quite strict conditions and security measures to prevent intruders from threatening him.
The Scorpio Man will not like it if you try to get into his head and pry too much into his private life.
There are aspects of his inner self that he would never talk to you about, because of how closely connected they are to his inner self. In any case, if he wants to tell you something, he will, but not before he decides it is time to do so.
Besides, he hates pretenders, or flatterers, and will probably raise an eyebrow if you try to win him over that way. It's annoying and he'll even start to suspect that it's all a ploy to get him into your bed, and you don't want that.
One of the things you could use to seduce him quickly, or at least bring his interest to a peak, is to get him fascinated by something mysterious and worth exploring.
It is in his nature to try to find out exactly what is daring enough to remain hidden from him, and if you present him with such a succulent target to set his sights on, you can be sure he will appreciate it, to say the least.
In theory, he should immediately abandon his group of fanatical admirers and turn his full attention to you.
Now, as for the good things, the really good things, it will come as quite a surprise to find out that the Scorpio man is very... inventive and enthusiastic when it comes to sex.
You'll never meet anyone who can do what this native does, because his natural drive is so forceful, and it's so intense, that it's going to take him very little time to get from point A to point B, if you get the idea.
He will never beat around the bush and will tell you from the start how much he wants you. However, don't think for a second that all he wants to do is physically possess you, because that's a long way off. He wants to get to know you on a deeper level, so be prepared for some serious questions when the time comes.
There are many things that the bold, action-oriented Scorpio man will appreciate in a partner.
To begin with, try to look your best and dress as if you are going to the most important event of your life, because, in a sense, this could be a vital meeting that will decide your destiny.
Spicy, explosive and seductive clothing will clearly attract this native's attention, as well as that aura of mystery and enigmatic depth that every woman is capable of weaving.
Moreover, they like their partners to be very direct and frank, and not reserved, hesitant, preferring to hide their feelings, rather than discuss them openly. It is not a game of chance here, and doing good for them will ensure their eternal gratitude.
Preferably, this native wants a partner who is not afraid to try new things, to explore the unknown, to implement new and innovative ideas, all to make the future brighter.
Those who stay at the same level and never get out of their comfort zone are destined to mire themselves in the same swamp forever, and therefore have no place in your life.
It doesn't matter whether it is due to shyness, uncertainty, complacency or fear of wanting to change something, as long as the end result is the same.
Also, the last thing you should do is try to win their sympathy by making the Scorpio man jealous.
That's... let's say it's not something you want to do. You don't want to know exactly what his reaction will be when he finds out you're cheating on him.
We all know that Scorpio is a sign of great intensity and passion, and so this man will make you fall desperately in love with him, almost obsessively. You will never have the power or willpower to look at another man in the same way.
It's something that works at the deepest levels of your psyche, and considering that he knows how to deliver a masterful blow to your emotional stability, it's no big surprise that you'd do almost anything for him.
However, the opposite might not be entirely true, because as seductive and lascivious as you think you are, he might not be the least bit affected, or at least he hasn't noticed any of it yet.
Also, the fact that he can become quite passionate (big understatement) about his hobbies could be a problem in your relationship, because he will tend to overlook everything else and focus only on what relaxes him and what gives him pleasure.
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