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The truth about jealousy and possessiveness in Libra men

Are they jealous? Possessive? Discover how Libra's jealousy unfolds when their objective and analytical side is overshadowed. Don't miss this fascinating story of intense emotions!...
Author: Patricia Alegsa
30-04-2024 10:04







  1. The balance of Libra men: Jealous and possessive?
  2. My experience with Libra men
  3. The search for harmony of a Libra man
  4. Libra men are not perfect
  5. Understanding the behavior of the Libra man
  6. How can the jealous Libra man improve

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Libra man possesses strong characteristics that make him unique: he is a man distinguished by his natural, innate charm and his relative emotional balance.

However, some people wonder about certain attitudes that Libra men tend to have: Are Libra men jealous and possessive?

As a psychologist and astrology expert with many years of experience, I have been able to analyze and deeply understand Libra men, unraveling the mysteries of their behavior in personal relationships in general and romantic relationships in particular.

In this article, we will explore in detail the nature of Libra men and find out if they are indeed prone to feeling jealousy and possessiveness.

Join me on this fascinating astrological journey about the Libran and discover the truth behind this enigma!



The balance of Libra men: Jealous and possessive?



During my long career as an astrologer and psychologist, I have been able to study in depth the characteristics and behaviors of each zodiac sign.

First of all, it is important to highlight that each person is different. The zodiac sign only indicates innate characteristics, that is, from birth; but upbringing, customs, and society shape the characteristics of each individual.

When it comes to men born under the sign of Libra, they tend to stand out for their peaceful and balanced nature. They are charming, kind beings who always seek to maintain harmony in their relationships.

Is this always the case? Why do I perceive a Libra, known for being so balanced and peaceful, as aggressive? Why does my Libra boyfriend get upset if I talk to other men? Why is he so possessive?
I remember a woman named Susan who asked me these questions a few years ago during a small motivational talk I gave in a European town.

Just because the nature of a Libra man is balance, it does not mean they are immune to jealousy or possessiveness. I will explain why later.

In the meantime, you can check out this other article on the characteristics of a Libra man:

Qualities of Libra, positive and negative traits


My experience with Libra men



Throughout my sessions and talks, I have had the opportunity to work with Libra men who have experienced moments of jealousy in their romantic relationships.

One of my patients, whom we will call Alejandro, told me how he felt overwhelmed by jealousy when he saw his partner talking to other men: he couldn't control it.

He assured me that he trusted her, but he couldn't help feeling a certain insecurity.

In this particular case, I could see how Alejandro was battling against his own internal insecurities more than against a natural tendency of the Libra sign.

Of course, it was necessary to delve deeper into his personal history; clearly, he carried some self-esteem issues or several past romantic disappointments.

By delving into his personal history, we discovered together that he had experienced past traumas related to disappointment and emotional abandonment; there was the key to all of this.

I remind you once again: jealousy and possessiveness can arise in anyone, regardless of their zodiac sign.

In this case, the Libra man can use his innate and internal characteristics to balance himself, to heal, and not exhibit behaviors that could harm the romantic relationship.

It is important to know that Libra men tend to highly value justice and balance in their relationships. Sometimes, in their pursuit of that balance, they end up harming their partner.

Let me explain further: if they feel there is an imbalance or a lack of reciprocity from their partner, they may start experiencing jealousy.

This does not necessarily mean they are possessive, but rather a reaction to the lack of harmony in the relationship.


The search for harmony of a Libra man




It is important to remember that each individual has their own story and past experiences that end up shaping their way of relating.

We cannot generalize and say that all Libra men are jealous and possessive, as each one has their own unique personality.

If you are a jealous and possessive Libra man, or are in a relationship with one, I suggest paying attention to these tips:

* Honest communication

In my motivational talks, I always emphasize the importance of open and honest communication in relationships, whether they are romantic or any other type of relationship.

If you have doubts about your partner's feelings, it is best to talk directly to them and express your concerns.

This way, you can work together to find solutions and maintain the harmony valued by Librans.

In the meantime, you can schedule to read this other article that will help you understand how to deal with the Libra man:

The ideal partner for the Libra man: generous and elegant

Let's continue exploring the reasons behind the anger, jealousy, and possessiveness that a Libra man can sometimes manifest.



Libra men are not perfect



Libra men, although they seek balance and justice in their relationships, are not perfect... Like any of us. We all have our flaws, it's part of human nature.

Just like any other zodiac sign, they can also exhibit negative behaviors and become cruel to their partner if they feel threatened or mistrustful.

I vividly remember a patient who, in tears, told me that her Libra husband was very cruel to her. That was the word she used. I will omit the details she shared with me, because I don't want everyone to think that all Libra men can be like that. This man was violent, a psychopath. She had to distance herself from him and even seek a restraining order so he couldn't approach her.

This case is very particular, but if you are experiencing something similar with a Libra man (or any other zodiac sign), I suggest reading:

The personality traits of a toxic partner

It's important to realize in time when someone is toxic and has serious emotional issues. Regardless of the zodiac sign, there is a problem that goes beyond horoscopes and you should seek help immediately.


Understanding the behavior of the Libra man



When you first meet a Libra man, you may notice his reserved nature and emotional stability, which makes them very attractive.

However, beneath that calm facade, there may be deep vulnerabilities and mistrust. Libra men crave a deep connection with their partners and often experience anxiety when they are alone. This can lead them to become overly insistent and meticulous.

The Libra man I mentioned earlier told me that he even asked his partner questions like: Why were you online on Facebook at 12:20 am on Tuesday? Why did you read my WhatsApp message and not reply immediately? Who was the voice of that man heard in the audio you sent me the other day?

Such questions or similar behaviors should alert us: we may be facing a Libra man who has issues with jealousy.

Although those born under this sign are not usually jealous, they may feel some insecurity in romantic relationships. All is not lost, they can recover.

You can read more negative traits of the Libra sign here:

The anger of the Libra sign: The dark side of the sign of the scales


How can the jealous Libra man improve



Libra men like to admire other people, besides their partner, but when they feel that the relationship is stagnant or without a future, they tend to break up rather than nurture unnecessary feelings of jealousy.

It is important to understand that the Libra man seeks to avoid conflicts and be well-received by others. Sometimes he may pretend to be jealous to maintain balance in the relationship or to meet social expectations. However, this does not necessarily mean that he truly experiences those feelings.

I suggest speaking with a professional, such as a psychologist, to try to understand if the jealousy displayed by the Libra man is pathological or not.

If you are involved with a Libra man and notice his occasional moments of jealousy, remember that this may be more due to a fear of social judgment or an excessive need to be liked by others.

There is something worse that you should never do if you are in a relationship with a Libra man: do not try to provoke jealousy in him.

I wrote this article that will help you deal with them: Dating a Libra man: Do you have what it takes?

Again, it is not worth trying to provoke jealousy in him, as he will not easily change his opinion and may seek someone else if he feels the relationship is unsatisfactory.

The Libra man seeks to maintain a happy and harmonious relationship. Although he is generally a skilled conversationalist and can easily avoid conflicts, this does not mean he never experiences feelings of jealousy.

Observe his reactions when someone flirts with you: if he shows indifference or trusts you, that is a positive sign.

Once trust has been developed in the relationship, jealousy will not be an obstacle to your happiness together.

Always remember to handle each situation individually and consider the unique characteristics of your partner.

Astrology can provide valuable information about the general tendencies of each zodiac sign, but at the end of the day, we are complex beings with our own unique experiences and emotions.

I suggest you continue reading this other article that you will find interesting: 11 Signs a Libra man likes you



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  • Why is he nervous and insecure about me and can't strike up a conversation with me?

    There are many reasons why men in the sign of Libra may feel nervous and insecure in a relationship and have trouble striking up a conversation. Here are a few possible factors:

    1. Uncertainty: Men in the sign of Libra often tend to be insecure and doubt their abilities and attractiveness. This insecurity may be due to their inner worries about how their partner perceives them or what others think of them.

    2. Jealousy. They have a need to control the situation and be sure that their partner is theirs alone.

    3. The need for perfection: men in the sign of Libra tend to be perfectionists and want to avoid any conflicts in the relationship. This can cause them to be more cautious when communicating and try to avoid topics that could lead to misunderstandings or disputes.

    4. Lack of self-confidence: men in the sign of Libra may have a problem with self-confidence, which can affect their ability to strike up a conversation. They may feel uncomfortable expressing their thoughts and worry that their partner will judge them.

    If you wish to help your partner overcome this nervousness and insecurity, it is important to be patient and supportive. Allow him or her to talk about their feelings and concerns, and be open to communication. It may also be helpful to suggest shared activities or interests that can release tension and allow an opportunity for natural conversation.

  • What are other signs of his infatuation with you besides maintaining eye contact?

    There are several other signs that may indicate that a man is in love. Here are some examples:

    1. He shows interest in your life: If he is interested in your interests, goals and dreams and actively asks questions and listens to you, this is a good sign. This shows that he is genuinely interested in you.

    2. He shows care: A man who is in love will often show care for you. This may be small things like bringing you coffee or helping you with a task.

    3. He wants to spend time with you.

    4. Physical contact can also be an indicator of his infatuation. If he touches your shoulders, hands or tries to be close to you physically, this may be evidence of his emotional attraction.

    5. He is willing to compromise: A man in love will be willing to adapt and seek compromise in a relationship. He will take your views and needs into consideration and try to find a common solution.

    It is important to remember that each person is unique and may express infatuation in different ways. These signs are just general indicators that might help you better recognize his interest in you.

  • Can he be a possessive and jealous man with the Sun in Libra and the Moon in Aquarius?

    Yes, a man with Sun in Libra and Moon in Aquarius can be possessive and jealous. Here are a few factors that may play a role:

    1. The sign of Libra is often associated with a desire for harmony and balance in relationships. A man with the Sun in Libra may feel insecure if he perceives an imbalance or lack of attention in the relationship. This can lead to feelings of possessiveness and jealousy in response to fear of possible loss.

    2. The sign of Aquarius is generally considered independent and free-spirited. A man with Moon in Aquarius may be sensitive to his personal freedom and autonomy. If he feels he is being restricted or limited in any way, this can trigger jealousy and possessive behavior.

    It is important to remember that each individual is unique and that astrological aspects are only one factor influencing a person's personality. Jealousy and possessiveness are human emotions that can be influenced by communication, understanding and mutual respect in a relationship.

  • What are the typical manifestations of a secret crush in a Libra man?

    Libra men are usually very gallant and polite, and therefore their expressions of secret love can be somewhat subtle. Some typical signs that could indicate to you that a Libra man is secretly in love with you may be:

    1. Increased attentiveness: a Libra man will show more attention to your needs and desires. He will try to find opportunities to show you his care and love.

    2. Seeking harmony: These men tend to avoid conflict and try to maintain peace and harmony in relationships. If they become interested in your opinion or views on various topics, it may be a sign of their secret crush.

    3. Manifestations of kindness: men in the sign of Libra often like to give compliments and express their kindness. If you notice that he often praises you or appreciates your achievements and qualities, this is another indication that he might be secretly in love with you.

    4. Willingness to listen: Men in the sign of Libra are great listeners and tend to be interested in what you have to say. If you notice that it's important for him to listen to your problems, joys and concerns, this could be a sign of his interest and infatuation.

    5. Creating Opportunities. He may suggest different activities that you could do together to bring you closer together.

    However, it is important to remember that each individual is unique and does not necessarily meet all of these signs. If you suspect that a Libra man is secretly in love with you, it is best to talk openly and honestly with him about your feelings.

  • How do Libras generally handle their emotional fluctuations?

    Libras are usually very conscious of their emotions and strive to keep them in harmony. It often helps them to manage emotional swings by leading a balanced lifestyle. This may involve regular exercise, meditation or other relaxation practices.

    It is also important for them to express their feelings and communicate about them. Often a Libra prefers to avoid conflict, but it is important for them to understand and express their feelings in their relationships.

    Another useful strategy for them may be to examine their thoughts and beliefs about their feelings. If a Libra understands the reasons behind their emotional swings, they can cope with them more easily.

    Finally, it's important to note that each Libra reacts to their emotional swings in unique ways, so it's always important to consider their own personal needs and ways of dealing with them.

  • What gestures or verbal expressions do men usually use in the sign of Libra when they have an affection for someone?

    Men born under the sign of Libra are usually very polite and chivalrous when they have an interest in someone. They may use various gestures and verbal expressions, such as giving compliments, paying attention, and taking care of their partner. They are usually diplomatic and balanced personalities, so they will seek a balance between expressing their emotions and maintaining calm. They can also be very considerate and try to understand their partner's needs.

    Since Libra is associated with art and beauty, men born under this sign may also express their interest through aesthetic expressions such as art, music, or romantic environments.

    It is important to realize that each person is unique and may have different ways of expressing affection. These characteristics are general tendencies for men born under the sign of Libra, but of course, they can vary depending on specific personalities.

  • What are possible reasons why the boy decided to pretend not to be interested in the girl he likes a lot?

    There are many possible reasons why a boy might decide to pretend not to be interested in a girl he really likes. Some of these reasons could be:

    1. Fear of rejection: The boy may be afraid that if he shows his interest, the girl will reject him, so he would rather pretend not to be interested as a defensive mechanism.

    2. Lack of self-confidence: It could also be a way to avoid the risk of rejection due to a lack of self-confidence.

    3. Playing hard to get: Some people think that by playing hard to get, they will be seen as more attractive.

    4. Being busy or having other priorities: The boy may be busy or have other priorities in his life, which is why he is not showing interest in the girl.

    It is important to remember that every person is unique, and there may be other individual reasons for such behavior. It is good to communicate about feelings and opinions with a partner in order to understand their motivations and desires.

I am Alegsa

I have been writing horoscope and self-help articles professionally for over 20 years.

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