Welcome, dear readers of Virgo! Today we delve into the exciting world of the zodiac signs, specifically the captivating universe of Virgo.
As a psychologist and astrology expert, I have had the privilege of accompanying numerous natives of this sign in their search for love and meaningful relationships.
Throughout my years of experience, I have learned that Virgo possesses a special sensitivity when it comes to choosing the right people, but can also be a victim of its own demandingness and perfectionism.
That's why in this article, I want to provide tips and strategies for Virgoans to protect themselves and find those who will truly bring them love and lasting happiness.
Join me on this journey of self-knowledge and let's discover together how Virgo can choose the right people for their lives.
I remember once I had a Virgo patient who was going through a difficult time in her love relationships.
She had always had a tendency to attract people who were not compatible with her, resulting in disappointments and heartbreak.
During our sessions, we explored different aspects of her personality and her pattern of choosing partners.
We discovered that her meticulous approach and need for perfection often led her to seek out people who did not live up to her expectations. This left her feeling frustrated and disillusioned.
I recommended that she start working on her self-esteem and setting healthy boundaries in her relationships.
I talked to her about the importance of recognizing her own needs and desires, and not settling for less than she deserved.
I also suggested that she pay attention to early signs of incompatibility, such as lack of communication, disinterest or disrespect.
I told her to trust her intuition and not to ignore any red flags that might arise.
In addition, I talked to her about the importance of surrounding herself with people who support and value her.
I told her a story from a book I had read about the importance of surrounding yourself with people who are positive and help you grow.
This resonated with her and encouraged her to seek out friendships and relationships that would nurture and inspire her.
Finally, I reminded her that finding the right person takes time and patience.
I told her not to be discouraged if she didn't find the perfect person right away, because true love takes work and commitment on both sides.
As our therapy continued, my patient began to make more conscious choices in choosing the people she surrounded herself with.
Gradually, she began to attract people who were compatible with her and who made her feel valued and loved.
This experience taught me the importance of authenticity and self-awareness when choosing the right people in our lives.
As a Virgo, it is critical that you take the time to evaluate people and make sure they are compatible with you on all levels.
In this way, you will be able to protect yourself and build lasting and satisfying relationships.
If you're a Virgo, it's part of your nature to be extremely loyal.
You can be nitpicky about some things, but once you're surrounded by your tribe, you tend to stick with them, even when it no longer makes sense.
Sometimes you are loyal to a fault, which can cause you to stay in damaging or limiting relationships, whether at work or in the family, for a long time.
As a Virgo, it's important to keep in mind that you're not giving away your energy to the wrong people.
You are an Earth sign, very grounded, and thanks to your hard-working nature, you are capable of accomplishing almost anything you set your mind to.
However, you can sometimes be held back by people who don't have your best interests in mind.
You are a hard-working person who cares about others, and it shows in the way you are.
People may try, either consciously or unconsciously, to keep you trapped or manipulate you in a relationship or in your work environment because they get benefits from having you in their lives, even though they may not contribute as much as you deserve in return.
Virgos tend to see the best in others and may have difficulty understanding that some people are capable of behaving selfishly.
Relationships should be a mutual give and take, physically, mentally and emotionally.
If that reciprocity is not met, it may be time to consider a different option.
An inspiring example of giving and generosity is Mother Teresa, who was also a Virgo.
Not all Virgos are like her, but they share that kind of altruistic behavior.
Mother Teresa was a saint who cared for the poorest and sickest.
Virgos tend to give to others even at the expense of themselves, and while that's not a bad thing, like Mother Teresa, you need to make sure that your energy is directed to those who really need and deserve your love and attention.
Virgos need to learn to stand up for themselves and fight for what is right.
They must empower themselves to manifest the life they deserve, in which they can help humanity to the best of their ability.
This may involve moving away from toxic people, places and situations that prevent them from thriving.
This is something Virgos may have difficulty with due to their innate loyalty and ingrained nature.
They often accept things as they are and that can cause them to get stuck in systems that are not aligned with their truth, failing to see the bigger picture.
Virgos often manifest problems with their stomach and digestive system as a result of absorbing toxic energies from those around them.
This is symbolic from a spiritual perspective when we look at the energy chakras, as this area of the body is where our self-esteem resides.
If you are a Virgo, be sure to surround yourself with people who treat you as well as you treat them.
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