1) Show him that he can trust you.
2) Respect their time and efforts.
3) Don't rush it.
4) Show off your qualities with modesty.
5) Love her unconditionally.
Getting to know a Virgo woman before dating her is essential. In any case, it would be better to befriend her first. The practical side of her personality almost demands it.
And her intelligence also demands that you regularly engage her in stimulating conversation. She loves a healthy debate and has no problem making her opinion known on a given issue.
Most importantly, he is well aware that not everyone will share his opinion and he has no problem with that. Above all, he seeks respect. This will lead to a much deeper level of connection with a potential partner, after which everything will fall into place.
His knowledge of different areas and subjects is likely to be high. He will also enjoy a healthy debate with you, especially those that challenge his thoughts and beliefs.
Ruled by the planet Mercury, it can display cultured, witty and sometimes even mercurial characteristics.
That said, she is not the type to show great enthusiasm for an idea - remember she is naturally reserved - and this can sometimes dampen the idea.
However, there is no need to worry about this, as as long as she is sure of your intelligence and trusts your judgement, she will respect your opinion whatever it may be.
If there is one thing a Virgo woman hates, it is having to wait for you to arrive. Therefore, it goes without saying that punctuality is a must. Wasting her time leads her to think that you have little value and respect for her time.
This is due to her incredible organisation, which in turn comes from the astrological house that covers routine. So, if you find yourself on repeat dates with a Virgo woman, organising them with some kind of regularity or schedule will work well, as she will prefer organisation and consistency.
In addition to knowing what time to go, you need to know where to go. Have your destination set and know how to get there.
Stopping and asking for directions is not a good start in their eyes. The same goes for last-minute changes: unwanted surprises are not on your wish list.
Keeping your word is also very important for Virgo women. Remembering appointments or even something like when you said you would call her is vital. Forgetting these kinds of things is a very quick way to make her lose patience with you.
Since she is very analytical, it is natural for her to detect faults in you. She is not trying to make you feel bad or worthless, but it is a habit that comes from her character.
However, its incredible organisational skills make it one of the best at helping you achieve your goals. It is one of the best in terms of efficiency and productivity, and does everything it can to help you.
Realising that she is not trying to bring you down with her criticism is the first step, after which she can be the best motivator you've ever had.
You value practicality in your man. Rash and ill-considered decisions are not to his liking. Instead, rational and logical decision making is a great way to ensure a perfect match with a Virgo woman.
A Virgo woman's mind rarely rests. She is constantly thinking about things and this can sometimes manifest as worry. Helping her to maintain calm and tranquillity is good for her.
However, sometimes you will have to be a little more assertive in your attempts to get him to relax. The problem is his constant need for perfection, so he is always looking at how he can improve any aspect of his life, even going so far as to criticise his recent escapades.
Part of your responsibility as her potential partner is that you will have to tell her when she needs to stop and recharge. However, the obstacle here is that she is not happy doing nothing productive with her time. If you can find a way to use that downtime productively, helping her to achieve something in the process, this will go a long way to winning her heart.
With all this in mind, it is essential to be able to make her laugh, as sometimes there is no time to do so.
However, as mentioned above, keep things easy and simple at first, like a meal and a movie, for example. When you get to know her a little better, you can start to diversify the kind of activities you do with her.
Virgo women are very quick to detect dishonesty, so she will know almost instantly if you are lying or not being completely honest. She's not one to let it go either - she'll bring it up at some point.
That said, Virgo women are very forgiving. As long as she feels that your intentions are honest and your heart is pure, she will not hold a grudge or make your life miserable.
Even if a relationship falls apart, any man a Virgo woman has loved will always have a place in the depths of her heart.
Having dreams and goals is one thing. Dreaming big and having goals that seem improbable is, however, what really appeals to Virgo women. Make her a part of those dreams and she will help you achieve them in unimaginable ways. This speaks to the deepest parts of her heart, which will go a long way towards helping you both achieve greatness.
Much of this is because Virgo is ruled by the Earth element. He wants a strong foundation above all else. Showing him that you are not only thinking about next year, but also about the next 5 years and a decade from now, gives him a greater sense of stability.
This is how she thinks, so being with a like-minded man is her idea of perfection. This planning for the future also extends to her sexual attraction to you: knowing that you plan and work for more than just the immediate future increases her desire for you.
Aiming high is a key part of achieving perfection, however you define it. Setting near-impossible standards is a Virgo thing, so set your sights higher than usual.
Her naturally shy nature means that she may not be as communicative as other women belonging to other signs in the early stages of your relationship.
For starters, she probably won't get any kisses. Instead, try to read her body language, as it can give you clues about how comfortable she is around you and whether she is ready to make a move.
Even before you reach that stage, she may be a little wary of entering into a long-term relationship. Again, this is nothing personal, but she is taking her time to weigh her options and protect herself.
Contrary to popular belief, Virgo women actually have an incredible sexual appetite, which can become apparent once she is sure of your place in her life.
Again, this is something that should not be expected instantly: it is secretive and private and takes time to make sure you are making the right decision.
When a Virgo woman is at work, she is only at work and is not interested in anything else. If you notice a Virgo woman at work, it is very important that you find a way to converse with her outside of her professional duties.
His personality is based on the need to take his time. Therefore, it is never a good idea to try to force anything or to insist too much. She will be discouraged by such advances and it will rarely do anything but drive her away.
In part, this is because Virgo women care more than most. If you push her with a desire to start a relationship or take your current commitments to a new level, you will push her out of her comfort zone.
Instead, let the dynamic between the two of you grow naturally and the results will be much more pleasant.
Her shy nature and her desire to stay inside her shell can make her seem indecisive. Remember that she has to feel absolutely comfortable with you before she commits herself.
It is therefore a good idea to keep overly affectionate gestures hidden in public. Wait until you are both at home before getting a little more intimate.
Maintaining cleanliness and good appearance are a must for a Virgo woman. She demands perfection in all facets of her life, so cleanliness and hygiene are extremely important.
First impressions are key, just like in a job interview. Pay attention to the little details you expose, as your Virgo lady will almost certainly take mental notes as well.
Virgo women are not complex like some women of other signs: they are as communicative and reliable as they are, not to mention beautiful inside and out. She is a perfectionist at heart, which means you will only get the best out of her. It is very easy to fall in love with a Virgo woman.
However, she can play hard to get. This is so she can gauge how much you love her before she commits to you and lets you know how she feels.
She can also be a bit of a traditionalist, so some of the most basic fundamentals she expects are reliability and punctuality. She is also very organised: don't be surprised if you see her organising her life in a multitude of lists.
Although she is very proactive in this respect, she does not like to expose herself and may appear shy. She prefers to keep to herself rather than be the centre of attention.
By extension, she can remain incredibly calm, even in the most pressing situations. Although this can manifest as naivety, she is strong-willed and has no problem standing up for what she believes in.
This natural serenity means that she will take her time in making important decisions. She rarely rushes and is quite methodical in what she does. To you, she may not seem interested in you, so don't worry, she may just take her time.
Their slightly simpler outlook on life makes them prefer more meaningful gifts. Lavish and expensive gestures of affection will not be as effective, even if they are often the easiest option.
With this in mind, it makes a lot of sense that she also prefers quieter, more discreet areas for dating. There are two main reasons for this: one is that she prefers to really get to know who you are, rather than simply being entertained.
The second is that a more subtle type of quotation is usually more thought out... and he likes that.
As mentioned above, he takes his time in making decisions and analyses every detail before weighing up the options.
As an Earth sign, you need this stability to move forward, which also includes knowing the opinion of all those involved.
This gives her an uncanny ability to observe, so much so that she is very quick to spot when someone is telling the truth or lying.
Add to this her incredible charm, wit and intelligence: there is nothing to hide with a Virgo woman!
Part of this is because he is constantly looking for perfection in everything. This also applies to you: you'd better make sure you do your best, otherwise he'll have no problem turning his back on you and not letting you back in.
I have been writing horoscope and self-help articles professionally for over 20 years.
• Today's horoscope: Virgo