Tips for Making Love to the Virgo Zodiac Man

The influence of Mercury, the ruling planet of Virgo, makes him an analytical, critical man with a ...

Table of Contents

1. What is the Virgo man like making love?
2. The importance of communication (and hygiene) in a relationship with Virgo
3. Is Virgo cold in bed? Truths and myths 😏
4. What does a Virgo man look for in intimacy?
5. 10 things a Virgo man likes in bed

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The influence of Mercury, the ruling planet of Virgo, makes him an analytical, critical man with a great desire for perfection in all aspects of his life. And of course, when it comes to intimacy, his standards don’t drop even a millimeter. Do you live with a Virgo? Are you dating one? Here I tell you what you need to know so your sex life with him shines and doesn’t turn into a lab exam 😉.

What is the Virgo man like making love?

At first glance, the Virgo man seems reserved, almost shy, and many think he is cold in the sexual realm. But behind that facade, there is a sharp mind, always analyzing how to improve and take care of every detail of the intimate relationship.

From experience, I tell you: One day, a Virgo patient confessed to me that he could spend hours thinking about whether his “performance” had been enough, if his partner really enjoyed it, if the lighting was appropriate... Even if the sheets smelled good! Here the obsession with perfection can work against him. If he feels something is not right, he will find it hard to relax and enjoy (and sleep, too 💤).

I recommend that if you have a Virgo in your life, you convey security and trust to him. Let him know he can trust you, not only emotionally but also physically. Always remember: what he needs, above all, is to feel self-confident.

Practical tips:

• Speak openly about your desires. Virgo loves sincerity and needs clear direction; he will appreciate it (and you will see it in his actions!).


• Reaffirm what you like about him. If he feels valued, his insecurity decreases and he can open up much more.


• Take care of the environment details: a quiet, clean bedroom, with pleasant aromas and no unexpected surprises (no clown costumes!).

The importance of communication (and hygiene) in a relationship with Virgo

Mercury also gives Virgo a great capacity for observation. He will notice immediately if something is wrong: from a perfume that is too strong to an inappropriate word. That’s why clear communication is fundamental.

If you keep everything to yourself and expect him to “guess your desires,” you could be waiting years for the reaction you want. Express yourself openly, tell him what you enjoy and what you don’t, and ask him too. It relaxes him a lot to know what to do!

But what about sex? Virgo is detail-oriented, a meticulous lover, almost scientific in some cases. He values hygiene, order, and subtle seduction. Never underestimate the power of a perfectly made bed or a shower together before the encounter 🌿.

Professional tip: If something bothers you in bed, say it. Virgo finds it hard to read between the lines, but if you explain, he greatly appreciates your frankness. That way you can grow together, without misunderstandings.

Is Virgo cold in bed? Truths and myths 😏

Many believe Virgo is routine or cold. And yes, he loves routine... but don’t get confused: routine, for him, is a safe space where he can let go. If you try to change everything at the last minute, you will make him uncomfortable. Better, suggest new things but planned, and you will see that Virgo can also be daring!

For example, in a conversation with an Aries woman, she told me how frustrated she was because her Virgo partner didn’t improvise. My advice? A sexy calendar. A simple “Would you like to try this on Friday night?” worked wonderfully.

What scores points with Virgo?

• Ordered and relaxed environment (no scandals or fluorescent lights 😬).


• Don’t impose surprises without warning.


• Enjoy slow seduction: messages, soft caresses, words whispered in the ear.

What does a Virgo man look for in intimacy?

Unlike other signs, Virgo expects a stable, calm, and lasting relationship. Sex for him is much more than physical pleasure — it is a sum of trust, complicity, and small details.

He values a deep mental connection, conversations before and after the act, subtle caresses, small gestures. He is not obsessed with quantity, but with the quality of the encounter.

Practical exercise: Before a special night, ask him openly: “What would you like to happen tonight?” Let him ask you too. That will give you both peace of mind and increase pleasure in advance.

And remember, if your desire also grows over time, congratulations! That is exactly what a Virgo dreams of experiencing: a passion that grows, not fades.

10 things a Virgo man likes in bed

• Acrobatics and positions: Virgo does like to experiment physically, but under his own rules and with proper preparation. He is not an improvised bed jumper.


• Submissive role (sometimes): He likes to let himself go if he feels complete trust. Make him feel you won’t judge if you are more dominant.


• Absolute privacy: No open doors, windows without curtains, or fears of interruptions.


• Emotional sensitivity: Take care of his feelings, don’t be rough or sarcastic.


• Mental connection: He needs to feel that sex is part of something bigger: looks, laughter, conversation.


• Repetition for perfection: He may ask you to repeat some practice until you are both satisfied. Don’t take it badly.


• Attention to details: Even the smallest problem can make him uncomfortable!


• Sincerity above all: Speak freely about your fantasies. He loves knowing he can please you.


• The art of seduction: Give him space to seduce you and for you to seduce him little by little.


• Total transparency: No secrets. Virgo appreciates knowing what to expect from you and vice versa.

Do you dare to go deeper? You can read this article full of irresistible tips: The Virgo man in bed: what to expect and how to excite him 🔥

Remember, with Virgo, every little detail counts. If you manage to combine honesty, patience, and a pinch of order, any encounter can be special. Ready to surprise him?

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