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Tips for Making Love to the Virgo Zodiac Man

The influence of Mercury, the ruling planet of Virgo, makes him an analytical, critical man with a ...
30-06-2025 22:21


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Table of Contents

  1. What is the Virgo man like making love?
  2. The importance of communication (and hygiene) in a relationship with Virgo
  3. Is Virgo cold in bed? Truths and myths 😏
  4. What does a Virgo man look for in intimacy?
  5. 10 things a Virgo man likes in bed

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The influence of Mercury, the ruling planet of Virgo, makes him an analytical, critical man with a great desire for perfection in all aspects of his life. And of course, when it comes to intimacy, his standards don’t drop even a millimeter. Do you live with a Virgo? Are you dating one? Here I tell you what you need to know so your sex life with him shines and doesn’t turn into a lab exam 😉.


What is the Virgo man like making love?



At first glance, the Virgo man seems reserved, almost shy, and many think he is cold in the sexual realm. But behind that facade, there is a sharp mind, always analyzing how to improve and take care of every detail of the intimate relationship.

From experience, I tell you: One day, a Virgo patient confessed to me that he could spend hours thinking about whether his “performance” had been enough, if his partner really enjoyed it, if the lighting was appropriate... Even if the sheets smelled good! Here the obsession with perfection can work against him. If he feels something is not right, he will find it hard to relax and enjoy (and sleep, too 💤).

I recommend that if you have a Virgo in your life, you convey security and trust to him. Let him know he can trust you, not only emotionally but also physically. Always remember: what he needs, above all, is to feel self-confident.

Practical tips:


  • Speak openly about your desires. Virgo loves sincerity and needs clear direction; he will appreciate it (and you will see it in his actions!).

  • Reaffirm what you like about him. If he feels valued, his insecurity decreases and he can open up much more.

  • Take care of the environment details: a quiet, clean bedroom, with pleasant aromas and no unexpected surprises (no clown costumes!).




The importance of communication (and hygiene) in a relationship with Virgo



Mercury also gives Virgo a great capacity for observation. He will notice immediately if something is wrong: from a perfume that is too strong to an inappropriate word. That’s why clear communication is fundamental.

If you keep everything to yourself and expect him to “guess your desires,” you could be waiting years for the reaction you want. Express yourself openly, tell him what you enjoy and what you don’t, and ask him too. It relaxes him a lot to know what to do!

But what about sex? Virgo is detail-oriented, a meticulous lover, almost scientific in some cases. He values hygiene, order, and subtle seduction. Never underestimate the power of a perfectly made bed or a shower together before the encounter 🌿.

Professional tip: If something bothers you in bed, say it. Virgo finds it hard to read between the lines, but if you explain, he greatly appreciates your frankness. That way you can grow together, without misunderstandings.


Is Virgo cold in bed? Truths and myths 😏



Many believe Virgo is routine or cold. And yes, he loves routine... but don’t get confused: routine, for him, is a safe space where he can let go. If you try to change everything at the last minute, you will make him uncomfortable. Better, suggest new things but planned, and you will see that Virgo can also be daring!

For example, in a conversation with an Aries woman, she told me how frustrated she was because her Virgo partner didn’t improvise. My advice? A sexy calendar. A simple “Would you like to try this on Friday night?” worked wonderfully.

What scores points with Virgo?

  • Ordered and relaxed environment (no scandals or fluorescent lights 😬).

  • Don’t impose surprises without warning.

  • Enjoy slow seduction: messages, soft caresses, words whispered in the ear.




What does a Virgo man look for in intimacy?



Unlike other signs, Virgo expects a stable, calm, and lasting relationship. Sex for him is much more than physical pleasure — it is a sum of trust, complicity, and small details.

He values a deep mental connection, conversations before and after the act, subtle caresses, small gestures. He is not obsessed with quantity, but with the quality of the encounter.

Practical exercise: Before a special night, ask him openly: “What would you like to happen tonight?” Let him ask you too. That will give you both peace of mind and increase pleasure in advance.

And remember, if your desire also grows over time, congratulations! That is exactly what a Virgo dreams of experiencing: a passion that grows, not fades.


10 things a Virgo man likes in bed




  • Acrobatics and positions: Virgo does like to experiment physically, but under his own rules and with proper preparation. He is not an improvised bed jumper.

  • Submissive role (sometimes): He likes to let himself go if he feels complete trust. Make him feel you won’t judge if you are more dominant.

  • Absolute privacy: No open doors, windows without curtains, or fears of interruptions.

  • Emotional sensitivity: Take care of his feelings, don’t be rough or sarcastic.

  • Mental connection: He needs to feel that sex is part of something bigger: looks, laughter, conversation.

  • Repetition for perfection: He may ask you to repeat some practice until you are both satisfied. Don’t take it badly.

  • Attention to details: Even the smallest problem can make him uncomfortable!

  • Sincerity above all: Speak freely about your fantasies. He loves knowing he can please you.

  • The art of seduction: Give him space to seduce you and for you to seduce him little by little.

  • Total transparency: No secrets. Virgo appreciates knowing what to expect from you and vice versa.



Do you dare to go deeper? You can read this article full of irresistible tips: The Virgo man in bed: what to expect and how to excite him 🔥

Remember, with Virgo, every little detail counts. If you manage to combine honesty, patience, and a pinch of order, any encounter can be special. Ready to surprise him?



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    Virgo men are usually rational and analytical. They pay attention to detail and are often perfectionists. They may have similar demands on their partners.

    Virgo men are interested in knowledge and sharing knowledge, so they are often drawn to women of intelligence and education. They tend to enjoy in-depth conversations and discussions.

    Virgo men also prefer a clean and organised environment. They prefer a methodical and tidy lifestyle and are therefore interested in general household chores such as tidying up and cleaning.

    Furthermore, Virgo men tend to constantly pursue self-improvement. They are hard on themselves and place great emphasis on self-development and efforts towards personal growth. Therefore, it is desirable that their partners have similar goals and values.

    Finally, Virgo men seek someone who is patient and can keep their word. Reliability and honesty are very important to them.

    In other words, in order to have a love relationship with a Virgo man, it is important to have knowledge, culture, an organised lifestyle, a desire for self-development, as well as reliability and integrity.
  • What elements of a romantic relationship do Virgo men value?

    Virgo men are rational and analytical, so they tend to focus on the same factors in romantic relationships. Below are some of the factors that Virgo men place importance on in romantic relationships.

    1. mutual understanding and communication: Virgo men value good communication with their partners. They take pleasure in understanding each other by openly sharing their feelings and opinions.

    2. fidelity and trust: Virgo men are extremely loyal. They place absolute trust in their partners and it is a big problem for them when that trust is betrayed.

    3. fidelity and honesty: Virgo men value fidelity and honesty highly. They want the truth more than falsehoods and deceit, so it is important that their partners express themselves openly.

    4. tidiness and cleanliness: Virgo men tend to favour tidiness and cleanliness. They may value order not only in their outward appearance, but also in their minds and in their relationships.

    5. intellectual stimulation: Virgo men may seek intellectual stimulation. It is important to them that they have common interests and values with their partner and that they can have in-depth conversations and discussions.

    These are the factors that Virgo men generally value in a romantic relationship. However, it is important to have a good understanding of these factors and their own and their partner's personalities, as they may vary from individual to individual.
  • Which is more important for men in showing love, actions or words?

    For men, it depends on the individual whether actions or words are more important in showing love. However, what can generally be said is that actions tend to resonate more strongly than words.

    Actions are a means of showing love and caring in a tangible way. For example, you can express love by devoting time and effort to the other person or by being sensitive to their feelings and needs. Actions are also important for building trust and a sense of safety.

    Words, on the other hand, also play an important role in showing love. Words are a means of communicating compassion and respect to the other person. Expressing appreciation and affection through words can warm the heart of the other person.

    The optimal approach is to use both actions and words in a balanced way. It is important to express affection and gratitude in words as well as in action. In addition to this, it is important to understand each other's expectations and needs through communication.

    Ultimately, it is important to develop mutual understanding through communication with your partner, as it depends on how they receive love and their personal preferences.
  • How do Virgo men tend to express their love?

    Virgo men tend to take a practical and thoughtful approach when expressing love. Below are some of the ways in which Virgo men may express their love.

    1. consideration and support: Virgo men value their partners being happy and content. They are considerate and attentive to their partner's needs and desires. They may even offer support and advice if you are facing any difficulties.

    2. practical behaviour: Virgo men tend to favour practical behaviour in their displays of affection. They often help and assist their partners in everyday life. For example, they may help with routine tasks such as housework and shopping, or assist with planning for the future.

    3. sincerity and trust: Virgo men are often serious and honest and value trust in a relationship. They tend to express their affection by keeping their promises and acting on their word. They also take their partner's feelings and opinions seriously and try to understand them.

    4. material care: Virgo men also express their love in material forms. They try to provide pleasure and happiness to their partners through gifts and surprises. However, the gifts they give are not always expensive and are often thoughtful and tailored to their partner's tastes and needs.

    These are general trends and may not apply to all Virgo men. It is important to communicate well with your partner, as individual personalities and experiences may vary.

I am Patricia Alegsa

I have been writing horoscope and self-help articles professionally for over 20 years.

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