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Choose to be better than the people who have hurt you

Learn to heal internally, you can be better than the toxic people that once surrounded you....
Author: Alegsa
24-03-2023







If you want to find all the reasons and excuses in the world to justify why life has turned you into a bitter person and you have lost your softness, you will probably find many.

 However, let me tell you something: life is not fair, never was and never will be.

If all human beings decided to become horrible people because of the circumstances they have been dealt, I doubt there would ever be a single good human being left in this world.

 Blaming circumstances and life for how you have become is basically giving up on yourself.

 It's not you fighting against difficult situations and life's obstacles, it's simply a way of giving up without striving to become the best version of yourself possible.

 Losing all your good qualities is a weakness.

 Being nasty to people just because you have power is a weakness.

 Breaking people because you know you can is a weakness.

 Not being there for someone even though you could is a weakness.

 Being bitter and unfriendly is a weakness.

 Making fun of others just because you think you can is a weakness.

 Never showing your soft side to the world is a weakness.

 And worst of all is justifying all this by saying that people and life made you who you are.


 Maybe you've never heard before how hard it is to be gentle in such a raw world, or to always try to be kind no matter what, even if someone perceives it as a weakness or a trait that others take for granted.

 Maybe they've never told you about the internal battles they've had to not become the people who caused them so much harm in the past.

 Blaming life and always adopting victim attitudes is no excuse for who you are, nor justification for acting the way you do.

 You always have the choice not to be the same as what your environment imposes on you.

 Even if you grew up in a toxic and hurtful environment, you can always try to be a better version of you, choosing not to become someone who hurts others just because they can.

 Even if you've had to deal with monsters all your life, it doesn't mean you have to become one at the end of the road.



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