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Seducing a Libra man is a controversial matter of hearing, some are keen to say that you can seal the deal easily, while others will swear it's the trickiest thing to do, if you want to play by the rules.
1) Combines lighthearted acting with ardent displays of affection.
2) Remain discreet and mysterious for a while.
3) Convince him that he has never had anything better.
4) Show that you are decisive at key moments.
5) Don't rush anything.
These natives are the type of individuals who cannot survive alone for long, so they will always look for a partner as soon as their previous relationship ends.
However, keep in mind that Libra men are very objective, so they look at the essentials before making a decision.
With a Libra man, it's pretty clear that you're going to get to the altar very quickly, so make sure you pick out the rings very soon, because you're going to need them.
These natives are all about commitment, and think only of marriage, of building a life together.
Besides, they are not the type to investigate everything you do, your every word and deed, because that way they will never convince anyone to give up their freedom and come with them.
If you have more than just a fling in mind, you're guaranteed to be pounced upon as soon as you present yourself as available.
Even if they have that reaction at first, it's not going to go so smoothly, because first they'll have to make sure you're not just another heartbreaker who wants to sleep with them and then just walk away.
They will want to get to know you better, observe and analyse your personality and character and, basically, find out whether you are worth it or not.
It's not that they want to incentivise you even more by playing hard to get or anything like that, because they wouldn't have the patience or the interest to do that.
It is a well-known fact that Libra men are very affectionate, loyal and responsible once they are in a relationship, so it would not be a bother to wait for him.
He is a highly intelligent and knowledgeable individual who likes to engage in deep and complex discussions, a preference in keeping with his highly analytical predilection.
He is particularly interested in topics that are highly controversial and have been debated for a long time by great personalities.
Things like the grey areas of morality, what exactly is moral or immoral, and even what amorality really is.
They have a very strong sense of what is right and what is wrong, and you only have to bring up an issue of this kind where there is some kind of injustice, and you will immediately see them quiver with anticipation.
However, this man is terrified of anything to do with the emotions and inner feelings he has harboured for so long inside himself.
It is never a good idea to try to force them to open up suddenly, because they are basically never prepared for such a discussion. And this fear is also related to their hesitation to commit.
Yes, how can you be afraid to commit yourself when, at the same time, you have a great need for closeness and therefore to find a relationship? Well, yes, but he wants things to go slowly, step by step, and for prospects to unravel at a steady pace.
Tips for seducing your Libra man
To begin with, try to look charming and dress well, because these natives are known for their great taste in beautiful women, and would like their partner to look her best in any social setting.
However, don't go overboard with flashy things, as it will create the opposite effect, and they will think you are trying too hard. Something elegant, tasteful and simplistic will do.
Also, try not to be too hasty or aggressive, because on the one hand, they are a very rational and patient group, and will perceive your impulsiveness as barbaric, while on the other hand, there is no need to rush, as things will move forward on their own.
Moreover, he will be very appreciative of your attempts at romance, and will respond with great enthusiasm. He has always wanted to release all those emotions that are hidden deep inside him, but all his previous partners would have scoffed or sneered at this, or would not have been able to empathise at all.
The truth is that the Libra man is a very romantic man, and would love to go to a candlelit dinner with you, with music singing to sweeten the mood.
I would even compose a poem for you, to make the picture complete. In general, nothing is too romantic for Librans, and anyway it will be moderate, not too exaggerated.
The best advice you can be given to win over a Libra man is this: act confident, elegant, wear the sexiest and most seductive smile on your lips, and have a cool attitude.
Don't try too hard, or it won't have the same effect, and never reveal too much about yourself. It only acts as an incentive for him to discover these things for himself.
Actually, mystery is one of the most important things in the relationship between the two of you, and it should be a constant element as well. Don't stay with him for too long, so just exchange a few words, capture his interest and then distance yourself. What happens next is obvious.
As for how you should behave, and what techniques you should use, they are quite simple really. You are a woman, so take advantage of all the gifts you have been endowed with, that irresistible charm that brings any man to his knees, that feminine charm that floats around you.
Don't be forceful or aggressive, because that's a sure way to get burned. They don't want a macho woman in their life, that's for sure.
And remember to impress them with your brains, bring up a controversial topic and you'll see them brimming with enthusiasm and admiration.
Another thing worth remembering is that Libra men like to know that they are doing the right thing, and not something they don't like or feel comfortable with.
Whether out of shyness or a need for encouragement, they will need you to be there in the moment, telling them that everything is fine, and that things will only get better.
They will understand that they can trust you completely, because honesty cannot be faked just like that, not when you have someone who can easily observe by your side.
There is only one problem when it comes to Libra men, but that one problem is drastic enough to drive almost anyone crazy. The thing is, these men could very well flirt with you endlessly, never taking it to the next level, or you could find that you were never anything more to them than just another fling.
Despite all the romanticism and confessions they have made, that was, unfortunately, just flirting, and nothing more. Actually, it's in their nature to be so open and sociable with almost everyone, it's not your fault.
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