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Feeling a little jealous when you are involved in a romantic relationship is absolutely normal. Conversely, not feeling jealous at all may indicate that there is a problem with how involved you are in the relationship.
As for Virgos, this sign cannot be said to be jealous, nor controlling, nor at all needy, they are just agitated.
The thing about Virgos is that they are doubtful. They question everyone's intentions, even their own. That's their personality. No matter how positive and secure things are in the relationship, they will panic when they start thinking too much.
Virgos can be demanding at times. This is because they like everything to be well done. They are demanding with people. If you notice that someone is too tidy and a bit quiet, you may be dealing with a Virgo.
An earth sign, the Virgo is intelligent and always organised. Virgos always know where they put their things.
They place them strategically around their house so that they can be found easily. No one in the zodiac is more capable of doing everything they have to do than Virgos.
Virgos born on the cusp of Leo tend to be more energetic and open, while those born on the cusp of Libra are more relaxed and cordial.
Virgo-born people tend to be reliable and, when paired with the right partner, they become devoted and affectionate.
They are good judges of situations and characters. That is why their friends trust them to have a firm opinion. When it comes to arguments, the Virgo will be sure that they are right.
They always know best and criticise people who don't do things the right way, which is their way.
Some would say that Virgos have insecurities when they criticise, but this is not the case. They simply feel the need to criticise.
Don't think that Virgos are too pessimistic. They are just circumspect about things. A Virgo will always prefer to aim low and succeed, rather than dream big and end up disappointed.
You can certainly trust Virgos. They are stable and perceptive and do not allow emotions to control them too much. When they are in a relationship, they prefer to understand their partner very well and can easily tell if there is a threat.
If they suspect that there is someone else in their partner's life, Virgos start acting strangely, not talking about the problem. You will know a Virgo suspects something when they become more distant than usual.
The person who is considered a threat will be avoided at all times by the Virgo.
Virgos do not reveal what they may feel. They are emotional like the rest of us, but they prefer to keep it to themselves, so their passion will be kept inside. It is true that they are not the most romantic sign of the zodiac, but this does not mean that they are emotionless.
Direct and never flippant, your Virgo partner will always be there for you. Sometimes he or she criticises, but this is something you can overlook.
With a partner, Virgos will try not to commit themselves too much. They are more the unequivocal type.
If you are in a relationship with a Virgo and you cheat on him or her, you can say goodbye to that relationship.
When they feel insecurities and jealousy, Virgos will not say anything. They calmly analyse the situation and decide if it is time to break up.
There are Virgos who enjoy making their partner jealous. They play this game in which they make their partner feel that they are in second place.
As an earth sign, Virgo is most compatible with Capricorn, who is also an earth sign. Both have a strong character and love cleanliness. Taurus is another sign with which Virgo is compatible.
It is because the Taurus has the patience and stubbornness necessary to put up with the Virgo's way of life. A harmonious relationship, but not too serious, can be had between the Virgo and the Libra. The sensitive Pisces will not withstand the Virgo's criticism all day long and the Sagittarius is too wild for their taste.
One thing people don't know about Virgos is that they can be controlling when involved in a romantic relationship. They study their partner, find their weaknesses and learn to be controlling with them.
This does not mean that they have no respect or that they take the other person for granted. They simply cannot survive without being in control. And control cannot always happen, without the person being controlled being aware of it.
The person being controlled is the only one to blame in such a situation. Instead of accepting what the partner keeps ordering, he or she can try to reason.
The Virgo will not like it when you stand up for yourself. When they turn on the control button, they are inflexible. The most important thing is to remain calm and express your opinion. If you are right, the Virgo will understand and stop their controlling behaviour.
With Virgos, it's important to know that you can't change them in a day or two. Their behaviour is built up over years and is what makes their life work at the time, after all.
Try to bring strong opinions to the table when you are trying to convince a Virgo of something, or when you are trying to explain that he or she is too controlling. Virgos will not accept your arguments if they are not strong and grounded in reality.
In addition to all this, one more thing. Don't be the one doing all the favours in the relationship. That's how you start to control yourself: by doing small favours. Try to politely refuse what the Virgo asks for.
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