The Virgo man, who at first glance seems cold and disinterested, is actually sensitive. He simply does not want to express his emotions, nor talk about them. At the same time, they are quick to change their minds, also to avoid conflict as much as possible.
A good conversationalist, he can talk to anyone about anything. When in a relationship, he is affectionate and open to socialising, which means he can make women proud to have him around at parties.
The signs he is most compatible with are Cancer and Scorpio. When it comes to being with the Cancer woman, the Virgo man can analyse her every mood swing, but at least he will always be there for her in the bad times.
She should not make him feel guilty about anything, nor should she ever say that he is not fulfilling his responsibilities. These two have a good chance of being happy if they are together, just because both of them always try to give their partner everything he or she deserves.
As for the relationship between the Virgo man and the Scorpio woman, it can be very interesting and, at the same time, frightening. They make a very good couple, but only if he helps his wife to open up and show her romantic side.
Should this happen, your relationship can end up being very passionate and really surprising. The Virgo man will not be found at the local bar, as he does not like to spend his time in crowded and noisy places.
Instead, he likes to go to quieter places and think. He is passionate about acquiring more knowledge, so he can also be found reading in libraries, visiting museums and enjoying a good day at the planetarium.
He is attracted to intelligent women who are interested in many things and have hobbies. However, he does not like women who brag about what they like or what they know. On the contrary, he prefers those who are quiet and do not hear too much about how a woman has read all the books in the world.
He is simple, but this does not mean that his tastes are not complex. Rude and noisy people do not interest him at all, especially when he is looking for a more serious relationship. The women he likes most dress fashionably and are a bit conservative, they also like to think and study.
He dislikes people who lie or play dumb, so he favours politeness, sincerity and kind words. The girl who wants to win his heart must be subtle and not scare him from the first date with her wildest dreams.
It can be difficult to maintain his interest because he is a loner who prefers the single life rather than the married life. In addition, he needs to have his mind stimulated and to relate to all kinds of new ideas. This is why he prefers intellectual women who like to discover the world and share what they have discovered about it.
When involved in a relationship, he is willing to give everything he has, but expects to receive the same in return. Because he is obsessed with cleanliness, he likes a woman who doesn't mind tidying up.
As long as she is disciplined and does not lie, he can be in her life forever. In case of a break-up, he would never go back to his ex, which means that no matter how much she cried, he would still not give the relationship a second chance.
This is because he aspires to perfection and has very high ideals when it comes to love. They are not superficial, nor do they seek to have a fling with someone.
He falls in love mind first, not to mention that he can handle any difficult situation because he always analyses the pros and cons, what could go wrong and how much emotion he needs to invest.
This man is sensitive and at the same time practical, which means he doesn't understand candlelit dinners or making love on satin sheets. He needs to have a schedule and a plan even when it comes to love, so his wife or girlfriend has to be willing to respect his routine. In return, he will be the best husband, father and provider.
When in a relationship, the Virgo man is devoted to and supportive of his other half. He likes to lend a hand around the house and take care of the family budget, while spending a lot of time with the children.
This is because he is very kind and wants his loved ones to be happy, and also because he desires a balanced lifestyle. The good thing is to know that he is still relaxed and does not make high demands on his partner.
Depending on what the woman wants, her relationship with the Virgo man can be happy or annoying. However, one thing is for sure: he is not for everyone. Although he is loyal, he is still ruled by Mercury, which means he has a duplicitous nature and is not a person others can always trust.
The same goes for Geminis, who are also ruled by Mercury and are the least constant people in the zodiac. It is difficult to have a relationship with those who are constantly changing.
Although the Virgo man may have superficial emotions and may not be the most intimate person, he knows how to keep his partner close and be affectionate. What he wants is to be left alone to get on with his routine and healthy habits, so when someone doesn't respect him for who he is, he starts to make demands.
When he likes the relationship he is in, he tries as much as possible to balance things out and hold on to tradition. He dreams of a woman who cares for him and cares about life as much as he does.
Women who want a man to help them around the house should go for him, because he is the type who offers to do everything and doesn't mind cleaning, cooking or doing some work in the garden.
However, he expects the woman he is with to do the same things whenever he cannot. It would be a tragedy for him to come home to a mess. This makes him very nervous and agitated.
Therefore, he does not like lazy people who do not clean up after themselves. Despite having many impressive qualities, he is still a nag and is very difficult to live with. The main problem is his need for perfection and his constant worrying about things that are unimportant.
Although his intentions are good and he wants to be helpful, he can annoy people with his attitude. Very compatible with the Virgo woman because they are both analytical and disciplined, he also gets along very well in the bedroom with the woman of the same sign as him.
It is also good for the Taurus woman, because the Bull loves art and all that is beautiful. Their home together would be a very nice and tidy place. The Capricorn woman would make a good wife for him, as she is understanding and relaxed.
Even the Scorpio has some compatibility with this man because they would complement each other. The Libra may not be his best choice because he spends too much money, which can irritate him a lot.
The Leo wants too much to be the centre of attention, which the Virgo man would never understand. Aries need to move from place to place too much, which annoys the Virgo and makes him feel like he is living in chaos.
The Gemini woman and the Virgo man can get along very well, but they would have quarrels in which they would both go to the extreme of holding their own opinions and would not be willing to compromise.
Some say that Pisces is a good match for Virgo, but this is questionable considering that the Fish is temperamental and that Virgo needs to be alone a lot, which can be detrimental to Pisces.
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