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Cancer women are some of the most emotional and sensitive women around, so in order for them to find true happiness in a relationship, they must first find a man who understands them on this level.
✓ Pros
His sense of humour is really special in the company of his partner.
He will treat you well and put all his trust in you.
He puts his romantic interests above all else.
✗ Cons
He loves to initiate drama.
It does not have the patience to wait for long-term results.
It can be quite confrontational.
These women need someone who can empathise with them and support them emotionally, a union of souls. A man who shares their core values, a loving and caring person who wants to start a family, a protective individual who will not let anything happen to her. In her opinion, devotion and courage are necessary traits for the ideal partner.
Although extremely vulnerable to emotional trauma, the Cancer woman is also one of the most attractive and lovable people in existence.
With such a tender and kind attitude, and such a charming and seductive personality, how could anyone hope to resist? It is simply not possible.
Moreover, its aquatic upbringing makes it very mysterious and worth exploring, filling it with the unwavering permanence of the sea, endless and enormously strong.
She keeps in touch with her ancestral heritage, the primordial feminine natural charms, that sweetness and purity of being which impresses everyone. She can desire great love, but she can also work practically with her environment if that is the right thing to do.
If you realise that his sensuality and affectionate personality call for nurturing, for the union of souls, for the deepest love, you will also realise that he wants nothing but the heights of pleasure.
Her emotional and sensitive nature means that she always waits for her partner to make the first move. So don't waste your time and take advantage of this opportunity, because she only opens up once, and that's it.
The Cancer woman wants a stable relationship where she can feel secure no matter what, where she and her partner are isolated from the rest of the world in a cocoon of love.
He believes that love is an unfathomable process and a destination to be reached through endless trials, the path being ultimately one of pleasure and fulfilment.
Her idealistic principles allow her to experience the world as no one else has before. She wants to find that partner who will help her to do so, to live the perfect emotion of love and to have that sense of belonging.
Once he gets involved in a relationship, he will offer his heart on a platter, he will give his whole being to his partner. He wants nothing more than to stand by his partner and love him endlessly.
However, if you choose to ignore her or give her less affection than she expects, you will find her furrowing her brows and sighing unhappily in a corner.
She will start to victimise herself in front of her friends, thinking that she doesn't deserve this half-hearted treatment. The point is that she wants to feel truly appreciated, to see her partner glow with happiness when he sees her, that he loves her from the bottom of his heart.
There will be a lot of arguments and dramatic back and forth, but in the end, learn to appreciate her and you will live a dream life with her.
On the one hand, the Cancer woman will fiercely protect her partner from anyone who dares to even look at him, and even more so when someone gets close to him. She sticks to him at all times and her love can be felt a mile away.
On the other hand, when he does not get the deep and involving love experience he desires, he is likely to even cheat.
What always prevents her from reaching her fullness is that she always tries to take care of her partner and satisfy all his needs, often forgetting herself.
Love and maternal instincts are two different concepts, and she too should make a difference. Selfishness and self-centredness are foreign ideas to her, and that is why her pure generosity and affection often meet with a bumpy road, because the partner does not see it the same way she does.
Either you set some boundaries to keep your expectations in check, or you will have to meet someone with the same capacity for love.
The Cancer woman is not sexual in the crude and perverse sense of the word, in the sense that she craves pure physical pleasure. She is the emotional and sensitive type who wants to go through the whole process, to be held and kissed, to be treated like a queen in bed.
She expects her partner to be tender, attentive and sweet to her, to be divine in her foreplay. She can develop her sexual appetite through practice and experience, but only with a loving and compassionate partner.
Her capacity for empathy and her natural instincts help her come across as a thoughtful and understanding woman, someone who can effectively feel your pain and be there for you when you need her.
That is why she becomes so protective of her partner and her children, because she is ultimately a very emotionally attached woman, whose feelings are deeply rooted. It is only normal for things to go that way if her partner appreciates and even encourages this part of her.
He will be very reluctant at first and will keep to himself, because he is afraid of commitment and of being hurt.
Because she has so much emotional depth, there are also vulnerabilities that can be exploited. Therefore, the Cancer woman will first want to know that she can trust you fully before opening up.
Put your heart and your whole being on a platter in front of her, and she will blossom with joy and confidence. Also, think twice before you say anything that could hurt her. She is extremely sensitive and will experience real pain at hurtful things, especially if they come from her partner.
It is also a very good idea to try to remember things that she likes, important dates in her life, those little things that you can remind her of. This will make her very happy, knowing that her partner cares so much.
Also, if you avoid criticising her, avoid criticising her friends and family. She loves them too, and it would hurt her if you insulted them. Let her be the best she can be and only guide her if she really needs it.
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