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Astrological guide to dealing with a narcissistic boyfriend

Find out how the signs react to a relationship with someone narcissistic in this article....
Author: Patricia Alegsa
15-06-2023 23:58







  1. The lesson of self-love: How to deal with a narcissistic boyfriend according to your zodiac sign
  2. Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
  3. Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
  4. Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
  5. Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)

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Do you have the feeling that you are in a relationship with a narcissistic boyfriend? Don't worry, you are not alone.

 Many people have experienced the difficult situation of being in a relationship with someone who seems to be more concerned about himself than the well-being of the partner.

 But did you know that your zodiac sign can influence how you should act in this situation? As a psychologist and astrology expert, I have carefully studied how each zodiac sign reacts and deals with relationship challenges.

 In this article, I will give you personalized advice on how you should act according to your zodiac sign if you have a narcissistic boyfriend.

 So get ready to discover the best strategies to maintain your emotional well-being and deal with this difficult situation.


The lesson of self-love: How to deal with a narcissistic boyfriend according to your zodiac sign


 In one of my couples therapy sessions, I met Laura, a brave and determined woman who was facing a complicated relationship with her boyfriend, Ricardo, who showed clear signs of narcissism.

 Laura felt trapped in a repetitive cycle of emotional manipulation and feelings of inferiority.

 As an expert in astrology, I decided to combine my knowledge of the zodiac with psychology to help Laura find a way to cope. After carefully analyzing her birth chart and taking into account her zodiac sign, I found a valuable lesson for her.

 Laura was an Aries sign woman, known for her courage and determination. I explained to her that her biggest challenge was learning to set clear boundaries and to put herself first.

 Inspired by this idea, Laura decided to take control of her relationship.

 One day, Laura and Ricardo got into a heated argument in which he tried to belittle her and make her feel inferior.

 Instead of letting his hurtful words drag her down, Laura decided to apply what she had learned in our sessions.

 She remained calm and assertively expressed to Ricardo her needs and expectations in the relationship.

 Ricardo was surprised by Laura's new attitude, accustomed to her giving in to his manipulations.

 However, Laura stood her ground and did not allow him to underestimate her.

 Gradually, Ricardo began to realize that Laura was no longer willing to be treated that way.

 Over time, the power dynamic in the relationship began to change.

 Laura became more confident, set healthy boundaries, and focused on her own personal growth.

 Ricardo, seeing the positive change in Laura, began to reflect on his own behavior and decided to seek professional help to address his narcissism.

 Laura's anecdote teaches us that each zodiac sign has particular strengths and challenges in relationships.

 Through self-awareness and a willingness to change, we can all overcome difficulties and find the self-love we deserve.

 Remember, if you find yourself in a relationship with a narcissistic boyfriend, seek support and don't hesitate to set healthy boundaries according to your zodiac sign.

 Your well-being and happiness should always be a priority.


Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)



 When you find yourself in a relationship with a self-centered person, your impulsive and passionate nature can lead you astray.

 Instead of distancing yourself and looking for someone who is truly worthy of you, you may fall into the delusion of starting intense arguments in the middle of the night.

 You go to great lengths to make the self-centered person understand things from your point of view, and even go so far as to retaliate to make him or her feel the same suffering you experience.

 Your stubbornness and determination keep you in the relationship longer than necessary, even though you constantly rebel against the egocentric person.

 You do not give up easily, and this turns the relationship into a nightmare instead of an idyll.

 Your impulsive and passionate character as a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) can lead you down a bumpy road in love.

 However, it is important that you stop for a moment and reflect on this situation. Falling into the deception of starting intense discussions in the middle of the night will not lead you anywhere positive.

 Remember that communication is key in a relationship, but it must be constructive and respectful.

 While your stubbornness and determination are admirable, it is also essential that you value yourself and look for someone who is truly worthy of you.

 Don't settle for less than you deserve.

 Remember that love should not be a nightmare, but an idyll.

 Keep your inner fire burning and don't give up easily.

 You will soon find someone who values and respects your passion and determination.


Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)


 As an individual born under the influence of an earthly sign, you are not easily deceived.

 When you become aware of the true essence of a narcissist, you don't hesitate to break up with them immediately.

 You have no time for mind games and are not willing to wait for them to realize that you deserve better.

 You are aware of your own value.

 You don't engage in repetitive arguments over and over again.

 You don't allow yourself to be walked all over without defending yourself.

 You decide to walk away from a narcissist before they realize it, and no amount of apologies can change your mind. Once they lose you, they lose you forever.

 There is no going back.


Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)



 When you are in a relationship with a self-centered person, it is common for you to constantly blame yourself.

 Every time they commit some negative action, you feel responsible and even come to detest yourself.

 You become too attached to the narcissistic person's opinion, believing that he or she is the only thing that matters in the world.

 You stop appreciating yourself and begin to see yourself through their eyes: as unpleasant, annoying and worthless.

 You allow them to shape your thinking to the point where you no longer recognize yourself when you look in the mirror.

 Even after ending that relationship, you will still suffer from all the things they put you through.

 It will take considerable time to regain your own sense of worth.


Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)



 Being a water sign, you have the ability to transform selfish people.

 You think that, with your dedication and effort, you will get them to treat you as you truly deserve.

 You are a magnanimous person, always ready to give second chances.

 Whenever the narcissist shows remorse, you trust in his sincerity and give him a new chance, even if it means suffering again.

 You are convinced that your love will be enough to bring about their inner change.

 Even when the relationship becomes stormy, you delude yourself into believing that the future will be brighter.

 You keep lying to yourself to keep the relationship afloat, because you can't imagine your life without them.



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  • How does a narcissist's behavior or communication change when they are between an old and a new source of energy?

    Thank you for sharing your question! The behavior and communication of a narcissist between two energy sources (old and new) can be extremely complicated and dramatic. Here are some key aspects of how a narcissist may react in such a situation:

    ### 1. Manipulation ?‍♂️
    Narcissists can be skilled manipulators. They can speak and act in ways that are aimed at maintaining a healthy appearance in front of both sources. They may try to resolve conflicts in a way that seems beneficial to them, such as crafting a false narrative about themselves.

    ### 2. Focused Attention ?
    Narcissists constantly seek attention and admiration. When they are between two energy sources, they may choose one to focus their attention on while "discarding" or devaluing the other.

    ### 3. Strong Competition ⚔️
    Sometimes a narcissist may feel the need to create competition between the two energy sources. They may try to evoke jealousy in the old source by showcasing new energy or outstanding achievements to compare themselves for presentation purposes. This creates drama and keeps control over the situation!

    ### 4. Loneliness and Confusion ?
    Having two relationships at the same time can create strong unrest in a narcissist. They may ultimately feel alone and confused, and this feeling may drive them to alternate between the two sources.

    ### 5. Voice Playing ?
    A narcissist may use different tones of voice and behavior patterns depending on who they are communicating with. In the presence of the old energy source, they may act more manipulatively, while they may be surprisingly caring or supportive when interacting with the new partner.

    ### 6. Guilt and Responsibility ⚖️
    Although a narcissist may not feel traditional guilt, they may employ such emotions to justify their behavior to others and towards them. The dynamic shift in relationships can bring out different aspects of a sense of responsibility.

    ### 7. Continuous Adjustment ?
    Narcissists adjust their behavior to attract new partner relationships and maintain numerous familiar relationships. This also means they may virtually lead the old source into a "crazy" zone and try to maximize the happiness generated by the new energy.

    #### Questions for you:
    - Have you experienced a similar dynamic in a narcissist's behavior?
    - What have your reactions been to their changing relationships?

    I am here to listen and support you! ?✨ Feel free to share your thoughts!

  • Do narcissists feel the need to change their behavior or communication when they receive negative feedback?

    Answering this question requires a thorough understanding of narcissistic personality traits. The behavior of narcissists in response to negative feedback can be very complex and varied. Here are some aspects to consider:

    ### 1. Defensive reaction ?️
    Narcissists often react defensively to negative feedback. They may appear offended or upset and try not to acknowledge that their behavior could be problematic. This doesn’t mean they don’t feel the need to *reflect* on their behavior, but their reaction is mostly emotional and not rational.

    ### 2. Ego deflection ⏳
    Negative feedback can lead them down a path of self-assertion (or even aggressive attack) as they try to protect their ego. Feelings like shame or guilt are not usually very common among narcissists, so they may prefer to ignore feedback rather than truly engage with it.

    ### 3. Awareness and adaptation ??
    Some narcissists may be partially aware of how their behavior affects others and may change their communication style to avoid future conflict or criticism. Nevertheless, this is usually a superficial adjustment that does not involve deep self-analysis or true empathy.

    ### 4. Blame shifting ?
    It is typical for narcissists to shift blame onto others, engaging in blame-oriented behavior and ignoring their personal responsibility. They may speak poorly of those who provided them with negative feedback or even become negative towards those individuals.

    ### 5. Seeking positive feedback ?
    Due to negative feedback, narcissists often feel the need to be more positively affirmed. Therefore, they may shift the focus in their interactions and only engage with those who offer them praise.

    ### Questions for you:
    - Have you ever been in a situation where you gave feedback to a narcissistic person? How did they react?
    - How have such value judgments affected your relationships?

    By sharing your experiences, we help understand how narcissistic behavior patterns operate. ??✨

  • What emotional and psychological consequences may arise for a narcissist in relation to the opposition of old and new energy sources?

    Narcissists may experience several emotional and psychological consequences from the opposition of old and new energy sources. These consequences can range from communication difficulties to self-esteem issues. Here are some key effects they may experience:

    ### 1. Identity Crisis?️
    The opposition of old and new energy sources can confuse a narcissist's identity. When they feel good in new relationships, it may make them unfavorable towards their previous life and create a sense that they no longer know who they truly are.

    ### 2. Worsening Depression and Anxiety ?
    Aging along with the loss of old energies can lead to depression and anxiety in narcissists, as they feel that too many changes are happening in their lives. These feelings can become an intense source of pressure.

    ### 3. Jealousy and Possessiveness ?
    The presence of new energy sources can increase a narcissist's jealousy, causing them to try to control new relationships or suppress old acquaintances to avoid losing their "territory" to someone else.

    ### 4. Feeling of Abuse ⚠️
    Narcissists' motivation to hold onto old energy sources may stem from a fear of losing their control or influence. Opposition may arise between old relationships, and they may start to feel increasingly victimized.

    ### 5. Fluctuating Self-Esteem ?
    Narcissists often rely on the admiration of others to maintain their self-esteem. When they feel that old energy sources no longer provide the necessary approval or attention, their self-esteem may rise and fall.

    ### 6. Emotional Manipulation ?
    The separation from old relationship holders can lead to manipulation, where they try to isolate new energy sources to avoid losing personal control.

    ### 7. Changing Relationship Dynamics ?
    The recognition of new energy sources can lead to significant changes in both the narcissist and their closest relationships. People may start to hinder their behavior, which naturally leads to conflicts.

    ### How does this affect you?
    Have you experienced similar emotions or situations? By discussing this, we can help you understand your feelings and at least partially alleviate the impact of the narcissist on you! ?? What are your thoughts and feelings regarding these consequences? ?

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