9 key things you should know before dating a Sagittarius

If a Sagittarius has caught your attention and you don't know how to move on and let them know, you're in the right place.

First of all, even if there are times when things go wrong, know that it is all worth it.

A Sagittarius native is such a caring and affectionate person, as well as being completely trustworthy, that he or she will quickly become your refuge in times of crisis.

If something bad happens or you don't know what to do in a certain situation, your guardian archer will be there to sort it all out.

These natives seem incapable of reaching a decision on even the most insignificant things.

Always disagreeing about what to do and how to do it, it can be really annoying if you always have to wait for them to make up their minds.

Although they are good at heart and want nothing but the best for those closest to them, pondering for 30 minutes over what socks to wear to a friend's wedding can be abnormal.

So it would be best for the partner to take the initiative to make decisions, or at least give the Sagittarian the push he or she so desperately needs.

Ironically, they are not so patient and analytical when talking to people. Saying whatever comes into their heads and wasting no time debating possible outcomes, Sagittarians are truly an odd bunch.

If you're not sure if your Sagittarian friend is around or you can't find him or her, just look for the enthusiastic individual with a bright smile on his or her lips. Yes, that's him.

Always seeing the best in others and having an idealistic view of life, these natives are unwilling or, better still, unable to look beyond the flowery fields and sunny meadows.

The latter seems to be more true, as it seems to be a natural charm of his, this optimistic outlook on people and life in general.

If you ever find yourself in a difficult situation or have just been through a dramatic event, just drop by your Sagittarian friend's house and they will cheer you up in no time.

"Surely things are not so bleak and everything will come to an end, so stop being sad", is what you will be told over and over again until you realise the truth.

Moreover, this attitude can and should go both ways. If they are really determined about something, or desperately want to achieve a goal, try to support them and offer your help. It will be much appreciated.

Being born with a tendency to exaggerate a lot when it comes to interpreting something that has been said or certain situations, Sagittarians can get into trouble because of this.

Problems for themselves, above all, of self-aggression and self-blame. If something is unclear or not explicit to them, they will create hundreds and thousands of hypotheses and possible explanations of what it could mean.

And most of them are simply wrong or fantastically absurd. Moreover, almost all of them are harmful and detrimental to their own well-being, are insulting and may even point to an inferiority complex.

Although they are very empathetic and compassionate individuals, those who go beyond theatrical and poetic romanticism are rare.

Preferring the simple, traditional way of expressing love, you will never see a Sagittarian go out of their way to impress or profess their love to anyone.

A bouquet of flowers and a few chocolates now and then will always do, but that's basically the upper limit. It doesn't go beyond that.

So, if you're expecting a big confession in an expensive restaurant, with a shower of roses all around you, it's not a Sagittarius you're looking for.

A very important thing for these natives is independence, private space. Not being able to take time alone and just stare at the ceiling when they feel like it because someone is there to scold them is totally unacceptable.

Having to forcefully distance oneself is obviously undesirable. And that is exactly what it is about. If you can't bear to leave them alone from time to time and you want to restrict their free will, bad things are going to happen.

Sagittarians have a very good memory and will use it to criticise or blame you for things you don't even remember doing or saying, or to surprise you with a gift or a well-timed compliment.

And whenever that happens, it will be in a romantic and relaxing environment, with nothing else to distract or get in the way. Being very affectionate and devoted, it is natural for Sagittarians to devote so much effort and time to trying to satisfy and make their partner happy.

But, as we have said before, this native can make use of this strange ability in other ways as well.

Remember when you said they don't work as hard as they should, right? Well, yes, and it's been bothering them ever since.

Things that should not have been taken so seriously, or things that are said in the middle of an argument, when emotions start to swell, are not perceived as random by them and the time for revenge is near.

If a Sagittarian chooses to spend his time with someone, rather than doing something else, it shows how much that person means to him, on all levels.

After all, why should he waste his time on something that doesn't interest him in the least?

Some people might, out of necessity, hypocrisy, superficiality or falsehood. Well, Sagittarians are men and women for whom honesty and frankness are capital virtues to be used, and they are used.

In a relationship, they are devoted and loyal to the extreme, overly affectionate and compassionate to their partner. Cheating is taboo as long as everything goes as it should.

For a Sagittarius native, everything makes sense and is valid as long as it comes from them.

It is not that they are arrogant and egotistical, but rather that they have a narrow view of things and a rigidity of thought that makes them hesitant and suspicious of accepting other points of view.

So, in an argument or conflict, you should know that this individual will not give up so easily and will admit that you are right and he is wrong, especially if the argument becomes heated.

Knowing when to step back and wait out the storm is the best thing to do in such a situation.

They are often perceived as seductive Casanovas who try to pick up anything that wears a skirt and walks on two feet, but Sagittarians are actually very kind and benevolent in general, hence the confusion.

Generous and friendly in general, these boys are loved by all who come into contact with them. Being very sociable and friendly, they have come to know certain things about people that most of us do not.

Together with these instincts and a sparkling attitude, every moment of your partner's life will be full of exciting surprises and splendid moments of joy and happiness.