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The Sagittarius man is anything but predictable and reliable. He may be so in his daily life, with all the daily responsibilities and obligations, but when he is in a relationship, he will act like a crazy person who doesn't know anything.
✓ Pros
It will try to maintain an optimistic atmosphere.
He is stimulated by challenges and the protection of a partner.
You will always know where you stand with him.
✗ Cons
He gives the impression of being cold and distant.
He is inconsistent and finds it very difficult to persist when there are no quick results in sight.
It can be tactless and exaggerate some situations.
Being a fire sign, you will quickly realise that his energy and enthusiasm are inexhaustible, like rocket fuel, quick to burn up and even quicker to burn out. The only way the Sagittarius man can truly dedicate himself and commit to a relationship is if his partner is able to follow in his footsteps at lightning speed.
You should also be aware that he tends to get carried away by his feelings and emotions, going from 0 km/h to full speed in a matter of seconds. He needs to be left alone to collect his thoughts and regain his inner balance before making a decision. If he is interested beyond those moments of intense passion, he will tell you.
In general, when everything is going well and the relationship is on the right track, the Sagittarius man is generous, warm and honest with his emotions, the most natural state of him.
However, if he is given a reason to distrust and appeal to his worst nature, then he will give vent to his anger, he will scream and fight, he will rebel against the world.
He does not listen to others and will be very direct about what he does not like. Normally, his partner must be very patient and understanding, to let him have his free time, doing his own things without interfering.
One thing this man is known for is his need for independence and freedom. He is literally one of the most impulsive and air-headed of the zodiac natives, always going on adventures and trying to escape the troubles of the world.
In a relationship, the Sagittarius man seeks a kind of mixture of love, affection and belonging, as well as individualism. He is also deadly honest and straightforward, because he does not know how to pretend or lie.
In the same sense, you can be sure of his feelings when he confesses his undying love to you. Being favoured by the gods, he always succeeds in his endeavours.
He is the wandering knight who explores the world in search of damsels to rescue, dragons to slay and treasures to discover. When all this awaits him out there, how can he not be excited to seize the opportunity?
On his return, he will tell you stories of immeasurable bravery and legendary courage, of sublime experiences and the knowledge he has gained in the meantime.
Therefore, the Sagittarius man in love will only engage in a relationship after he has achieved most of his personal goals, and even then, only with an exciting and adventurous woman who stimulates his drive.
Knowing how fond he is of trying new things and experiencing countless thrills, you can deduce that if he gets bored of you, he will look for excitement in other women.
So take care to satisfy his desires and his need for innovative stimulation by being creative and spontaneous in bed, and not only. Eventually, he will tire of exploring the world alone and will want to find a partner.
That is the ideal moment for you to appear as a goddess saviour. At that point, you have stopped fooling around and causing chaos.
Being calm and patient brings countless advantages and a serene personality that pleases everyone. All your plans and dreams are fully revealed so that you both work together to build a bright future.
However, don't let him off the leash too easily just because he opens up a bit. He is still impulsive and unexpected enough to make decisions without asking you. Working together is a foreign concept to him.
You don't meet a Sagittarius man, fall in love with him and expect him to ask you to marry him a year later. That's not how it works.
It's not that he doesn't love you, but that the prospect of committing himself to such an extent is incompatible with his independence and freedom.
If you want a sensitive and caring husband who is always there to support you even when you don't need him, we're sorry to say, but he doesn't meet that criterion.
He's more like the cool, open-minded guy you admire from afar for being so exciting and fun. He does his thing, you do yours and everyone is happy.
He can be quite contradictory, and you'll have a hard time figuring out if he really loves you or if it's a ruse. He is sometimes very romantic and will go out of his way to impress you with flowers, romantic dinners, surprise hugs and the like.
But he can also forget an important date, like your anniversary or that it's time for you to go skiing. And he simply forgets because he's focused on other things, his mind is full of all sorts of plans and ideas, each one more interesting than the last. Don't think he doesn't love you for that.
The Sagittarius native does not like the feeling of staying indoors for more than a few hours, because it quickly saps his energy, his vitality.
It should go out, witness the wonders of the world, go around and have fun, gain knowledge, meet people and make new friends.
If you really love and understand him, you will not only allow him these periods of freedom, but you will even accompany him so that he has twice as much fun. He will like having you there, that's for sure.
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