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11 key things you need to know before dating a Libra

Keep these Libra dating tips in mind so you can make the most of your dates with this friendly sign....
15-07-2022 12:59







  1. 1. Their social skills are poor.
  2. 2. You won't be able to resist its charm.
  3. 3. They are great listeners
  4. 4. Don't underestimate their need for time alone.
  5. 5. They enjoy the good things in life.
  6. 6. They are harmony seekers
  7. 7. They are not afraid to argue with you
  8. 8. They are slow to commit
  9. 9. They can be incredibly indecisive
  10. 10. They get bored easily
  11. 11. They are curious seekers of drama

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1. Their social skills are poor.

Librans are great conversationalists and waste no time in meeting new people whenever possible. With great social skills and a friendly attitude, basically everyone loves to have one of these natives around.

There is virtually nothing that can go wrong. So, if you want to date a Libra native, remember that dating is what they love the most. Also, when they fall in love with someone, they fall in love for life, it's like an oath for them, which means jealousy is out of the question in such a relationship.

Another thing is that a Libra is not used to deceiving others or lying to cover something up. This means that whatever you tell them will be taken for granted and accepted as true.

No matter whether these words have been said in the moment or in jest, this native will not make any difference. Therefore, special attention must be paid to avoid any misunderstanding.


2. You won't be able to resist its charm.

Of all the other signs of the Zodiac, Librans are some of the most devoted and loving individuals around. And people adore them, that's the truth.

They feel just as good going to a party as they do having an intimate picnic, and they are able to take on everything for the person they love.

Whether it's a whisper spoken in a fleeting moment, a gift given at the right time or a kiss on the cheek, Librans are well versed in the arts of love.

They will make you fully experience everything there is to know about romance, side by side with a true master of the subject.


3. They are great listeners

The world is full of people who only pretend to pay attention to what you say, or simply do not value your opinions and thoughts, treating them as mere ramblings. No need to be surprised by this.

Well, a Libra native is quite the opposite. Great listeners and open-minded people, they will not only seem enraptured by a discussion, but will also interject their own ideas on the subject from time to time.

They are not confrontational or stubborn individuals at all, they are not looking for a victory, but for a healthy and fun discussion.

There are no forbidden or offensive topics for them, and as long as they lead to a more relaxed and comfortable atmosphere, any topic is acceptable to them.

Although these natives are very affectionate and loving towards those close to them, it would be a great mistake to think that they will tolerate any misbehaviour or mistreatment.

If something like this were to happen, a Libra will not hesitate long to take appropriate action. And that could even include the possibility of leaving, if things go too far.


4. Don't underestimate their need for time alone.

Although a very sociable and outgoing individual, a Libra will still feel the need to regain some time for themselves and recharge their batteries.

After all, all that excitement and intensity has to come to an end, doesn't it? However, it doesn't take long for them to come back better than ever, and ready for round two, or even round three.

Now, with all this in mind, you have to start appreciating your Libra partner, who is probably 99% of the time on top of you.

Giving up all that extra alone time may not be too distressing and irritating, but it can be slightly uncomfortable.

Their decision to spend it with you instead of recovering should serve as an indication of what a relationship really means to them. Two people side by side fighting against the whole world, that's how they see it all.


5. They enjoy the good things in life.

Although these natives are very understanding and compassionate people, with seemingly simple tastes and needs, this is not the case at all.

At least not when we talk about the little things that make everything more pleasant and worth living.

Comfort and pleasure - these are the two things that light a spark in a Libra's eyes, and rightly so. What is more important than living a comfortable and fulfilling life?

No regrets and doing whatever feels good is the way a Libra prefers to live their life. Offer them that and you'll have a partner in crime from then on.


6. They are harmony seekers

This should come as no surprise, as even their names suggest, but Librans seek above all harmony, an overall balance in their lives.

If something feels out of order or out of place, a change is needed to reach an acceptable level and regain balance.

In discussions, they are not closed-minded, and even if they have their own ideas and thoughts, recognising and admitting other arguments is not difficult.

In turn, this makes it more difficult for any conflict to arise that might lead to bad things happening. This peacekeeping function is perfect for these very adaptable people, and mediating seems to be what they do for a living.


7. They are not afraid to argue with you

Always carrying the olive branch does not automatically mean that they will give up their arguments or support them badly, just because other participants may feel annoyed or offended.

That will be dealt with in due course, if the situation becomes more complicated. But until then, surrender is not acceptable, nor is it an option in any way.


8. They are slow to commit

They may be a bit reticent and hesitant to get into the same boat with someone, because they are fully aware that something bad could happen.

As they tend to be overly analytical and observant, it is not so difficult to predict certain outcomes and situations.

They are in the field of behavioural psychology, and reading attitudes comes as naturally to them as breathing.

Hence, it is obvious why it takes a Libra a long time to fully commit and trust someone wholeheartedly.


9. They can be incredibly indecisive

Always thinking ahead and planning 10 moves in advance makes them unable to make decisions on the fly.

If a critical situation arises, for example, a Libra native will not know how to react and what to do, because it takes time to count all possible variables and take into account possible obstacles.

That is the moment when you take the reins and try to solve the problem, helping them a lot in the meantime and building that trust.

However, even if they are sometimes indecisive, this does not mean that they are also indecisive in general. Fully aware of what they want and how to achieve it, they do not find it difficult to give up things that do not match their dreams.


10. They get bored easily

Disliking routine activities and everyday events, these natives always have to do something exciting and new.

Otherwise, they get bored, and no one wants that, especially Libras themselves. So, if you're all talk and no action, don't be surprised when they leave you for someone more fun and adventurous.

Also, Libra men tend to be very superficial when it comes to keeping their word, or doing what is expected of them. It is very tedious and unexciting.

Do they really have to? Well, more or less, yes. As men, they have certain obligations and guidelines they have to follow and they should. Therein lies the problem, but given that their partner is able to put up with it, everything will be fine.


11. They are curious seekers of drama

Like any other respectable human being, Librans are extremely curious about the latest quarrels and conflicts in the relationship. After all, it is only natural.

But if the unexpected happens and that same drama comes to haunt their happy marriage, they immediately take the most appropriate measures to get rid of it. Nothing makes them more uncomfortable and irritated than being in a constant state of discomfort and conflict.

The home is supposed to be a place of recreation and relaxation, and if that is no longer the case, something needs to be done, and they are the ones to do it.



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