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How to attract a Gemini man: Top tips to make him fall in love with you

Discover the type of woman he is looking for and how to win her heart....
13-07-2022 17:03







  1. Capture the attention of this social butterfly
  2. You have to adapt to their fast pace
  3. Compliments will go both ways

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1) Show that you are unconventional.

2) Have informed conversations with him.

3) Don't be too pushy or curious.

4) Be honest about your dreams.

5) Learn to moderate their mood swings.

If you know how to approach the Gemini man without making him run away and also understand how Mercury influences him, you will have a great chance of seducing him.

Never boring or melancholic, he has a thirst for life and enjoys adventure more than anything else. If he is the type who likes to take on new challenges and is not afraid of what life throws at him, then the Gemini man is definitely your man.

He likes energetic and unconventional girls who exude youthfulness. The optimistic type will always make him fall in love. Loving his freedom, this type does not need to be pushed into something serious too soon.

He likes to be a person's friend first, and then a lover. It would be a mistake to try to deceive the Gemini man. If you really like him, introduce yourself sincerely. He will love you for it.

Not to mention that he can easily read people, and realise what their true motives are. If he has come to the conclusion that you have lied to him, you may never hear from him again.

Be honest and at the same time don't get too emotional. It is too logical a creature to put up with the emotions of others.


Capture the attention of this social butterfly

As an intellectual, he will appreciate a woman with whom he can have an informed conversation. He himself is interested in learning new things, so if you happen to be highly educated, you will only impress him more.

If you don't know where to look for a Gemini man, try some adult colleges. This guy is always trying to improve himself through study.

Or you can try planes flying to exciting destinations. An incurable traveller, you like to see new places and interact with people from different cultures.

If you are already dating the Gemini man and want to win his heart forever, invite him to an exotic location for a weekend or a whole week - he'll be thrilled!

Don't worry too much if you haven't had the chance to go anywhere yet. He loves to talk about his adventures, so he'll make sure you've learned all about a destination from him.

It is important to know that, when talking to this boy, do not insist on the same thing. He can get bored very easily. He jumps from one idea to another. This is what he does, and it works for him, so why shouldn't it work for you?

Attracting the Gemini man is not difficult at all. He is a social butterfly and is always curious about new people. However, keeping him around can be much more difficult. You will have to be original and creative if you want him to be interested in you for more than a month.

So change his look as often as you can, take him to the most curious places and offer him new hobbies. Variety is also very important, while spontaneity and imagination are what make him tick.

He won't mind if you plan things on the fly, as he himself is the type to act just before it's time for action. Don't be ordinary. He wants someone special and unique: a girl who is exotic and makes him wonder about her thoughts.


You have to adapt to their fast pace

The key to understanding and getting to know the Gemini man is to allow him his freedom. He is too independent to be tied down. If he somehow feels trapped with someone, he will leave immediately.

That is why this man needs a woman who is strong and independent as well. He likes to know that someone will always be waiting for him, but he does not want to feel obliged to be at home every night at a certain time.

Versatile, intelligent and flexible, this guy will want to share his life with someone who is also curious to do new things with him. So stimulate him physically, but especially mentally. Take him cycling, hiking and scuba diving. He will like all this without questioning you.

Parties are something I'd never turn down, so get out whenever there's a new DJ in town. Keep him hooked and he'll love you forever.

If you try to keep him close to you all the time, he will only run away and look for someone else who is not so needy. Giving this man plenty of space is essential when you are trying to make him fall in love with you.

Of course, all this will require a lot of trust on your part, but there is nothing more you can do with him. He is who he is, and he will never change.

Possessive and jealous women will only make him run away. There is no greater rejection for him than a girl who throws tantrums because she hasn't been cuddled one night.

Be adaptable when he changes your schedule, as he is one of the most disorganised signs of the zodiac. If you feel jealous, never say anything to him, or he will get scared and try to avoid you as much as possible.

However, he will never get jealous. On the contrary, if the Gemini man were to see you flirting with other men, he would rather get excited. He can really push someone to the limit when it comes to not being able to be jealous, no matter what.

And when he realises that you may have this feeling, he will think that you are just trying to tie him down, to keep him too close to you. And as said before, this is something the Gemini man will never tolerate.

Definitely not the best fit for a woman who is always curious about who her lover is spending time with, or how much he smiled at the waitress when she brought the drinks. If you want to be with him for a long time, control your jealousy, above anything else.


Compliments will go both ways

The more opinionated and eager to express your opinions you are, the more your Gemini man will like you. He only respects people who speak up. He loves a good conversation, so don't hesitate to contradict him whenever you don't think the same as he does.

It excites him to see that you have dreams and hopes of success. He likes ambition and is driven by lofty goals himself. Not that you have to be obsessed with your career, but having goals you are working towards would make him like you more.

There is nothing sexier to this guy than seeing you driven and busy. He hates it when people are lazy or have no ambition. In this situation he usually packs up and leaves.

Once you have caught his attention, proceed with the seduction process. Compliment him and admire him, he will love it if you appreciate his qualities. Maintain a sexy look to make him feel attracted and want to take you to bed.

Whatever you say, don't mention marriage or any other kind of commitment. She will get scared and look for someone else. Let her think about a ring in her own time. She will probably wake up one day with it asking her to marry you.

Gemini men are known to have more mood swings than men of other signs. If you are patient, relaxed and easy-going, you will be able to cope with his changing emotions. However, he won't know what to do if you make a scene or have a tantrum.

He is peaceful and quiet himself, and hates fighting more than anything else in the world. If you keep him calm and relaxed, you can enjoy your Gemini man for many years. If he does not feel pressured and is intellectually satisfied, he will be with you forever.



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