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Have you ever felt unloved or misunderstood in your relationships? Have you wondered why love doesn't seem to flow easily in your life? If so, let me tell you that you are not alone.
Many people find solace and answers in astrology, which is why in this article we will explore how your zodiac sign may be influencing your perception of love.
As a psychologist and astrology expert, I have had the privilege of helping many individuals understand and overcome these emotional challenges.
Through my experience and expertise, we will unravel the reasons why you mistakenly consider yourself unlovable, based on the characteristics of your sign.
Get ready to discover a unique and valuable perspective that will help you transform your relationships and find the love you've always wanted.
You have an energetic and determined personality, although you also hide a sensitive side that you rarely show.
Although you care about others' opinions of you, you sometimes find it difficult to show your fragility.
You prefer to hide behind a semblance of independence and avoid becoming emotionally involved.
However, keep in mind that love does not always involve risks and that you deserve to be loved and appreciated.
It is likely that you have experienced a sentimental disappointment in the past that has left an imprint on your heart. From time to time, you find it difficult to trust in love and you are afraid that no one else is capable of loving you completely.
However, a failed relationship does not determine your destiny.
Allow your heart to open and give yourself the opportunity to discover someone who truly appreciates you and makes you feel loved.
Lack of trust leads you to be suspicious of the intentions of others, even when they show you affection and support.
You imagine situations in your mind and cling to them, thinking you are protecting your heart. However, in reality, you are sabotaging your own well-being and alienating the people who really care about you.
Accept that you deserve to be loved and trust those around you.
You place undue importance on others' perception of you.
You define yourself through the eyes of those around you and allow their view of you to become your own view. Keep in mind that you are a valuable person and that your worth is not tied to others' opinions of you.
Learn to love yourself and trust your own judgment.
You have a tendency to be very self-critical and often focus on your weaknesses instead of recognizing your abilities.
Your confidence level has decreased over the years, affecting your self-esteem.
It is important that you learn to value and accept yourself as you are, because only when you love yourself do you allow others to truly love you.
Don't let your mistakes cloud your perception of your virtues.
Sometimes you refer to yourself in a pessimistic way, as if your imperfections were the only thing that mattered.
However, it is important to remember that we all have our weaknesses and that doesn't mean you can't be a good partner.
Learn to recognize your own value and accept that you deserve to be loved and valued for who you are.
You feel a deep emptiness in your heart, as if you were surrounded by an immense feeling of loneliness.
You have lost contact with your friends and have even distanced yourself from your own family.
At this time, you have no expectations of dating and this makes you believe that you have made a mistake.
You wonder if you are worthy of having friends or even a partner in your life.
But let me tell you that the loneliness you are experiencing does not define who you are as a person at all.
It is only a temporary situation that should not break your determination and inner strength.
You carry an emotional burden that overwhelms you too much.
You feel that no one will stand by your side once you get into your true self, when they see your shadows, your inner battles.
You find it hard to believe that someone can love you in your most complicated moments.
When someone expresses their feelings for you, you assume it's only a matter of time before they realize your true self and abandon you.
You possess a rational mind and have a highly objective approach.
The feeling of love is unknown to you and you have come to the conclusion that you will never experience it.
You firmly believe that the past is an indication of your future and you take it for granted that history will repeat itself.
You find it difficult to imagine being the object of love, since you have never had the opportunity to experience true affection first hand.
You have allowed past disappointments to freeze your heart.
You have become a disbeliever when it comes to love.
In your mind, love is linked with suffering, confusion and tension. You call yourself unlovable because, in reality, you don't long for love.
You prefer the calm of solitude and tell yourself that it is best that way.
You have been a victim of manipulation repeatedly because of your generosity.
You experience the constant feeling of not getting what you want in life.
You have the belief that love is always fleeting and that no one will stay by your side forever.
The fear of being abandoned is affecting your judgment and convinces you that you only deserve to be loved for one night, when in reality you deserve much more than that.
Everyone wants to be your message recipient, but they are never willing to be anything more than that.
You are considered a secondary alternative, a plan B, just a friend.
You are always somewhere in between in a relationship and feel that you will never be loved completely.
However, you must remember that you deserve full love.
Don't settle for less and don't let others see you as just an option.
I remember a patient named Ana, a charming 35-year-old woman who always seemed to have everything under control.
However, behind her radiant smile and confident attitude, there was a deep sadness in her heart.
Ana was of the Libra sign, known for her romantic nature and her desire to find true love.
But instead of finding it, she seemed to constantly attract unbalanced and unsatisfying relationships.
During our sessions, Ana shared her frustration at always ending up with men who were unwilling to commit emotionally.
She felt trapped in a cycle of disappointment and didn't understand why.
Investigating further, I discovered that Ana had a tendency to idealize love and put the needs of others above her own.
She always sought perfection in her partners and settled for less than she really deserved.
I explained that this was a common characteristic of Librans, who are often attracted to the idea of romantic love and can become overly self-sacrificing in their relationships.
They have a hard time setting boundaries and expressing their true wants and needs.
To help Ana break this negative pattern, we worked on strengthening her self-esteem and her ability to set healthy boundaries.
We explored together what she really wanted in a relationship and how to communicate it clearly and assertively.
Gradually, Ana began to shift her focus and become more selective in her love choices.
She learned to recognize the warning signs of an unbalanced relationship and to put an end to them before they became a source of pain.
After a few months of hard work and self-discovery, Ana finally found the love she longed for.
She met a man who shared her values and was willing to make a real commitment.
Together, they formed a balanced and fulfilling relationship.
Ana's story is a reminder that our astrological characteristics can influence our experiences of love and relationships.
However, we are not doomed to repeat the same negative patterns.
We can learn to be aware of our tendencies and work to change them, thus creating healthier and happier relationships.
During one of my motivational talks, a woman approached me to tell me her personal story.
She was a Cancer sign, and had always felt unloved and unappreciated in her relationships.
As we talked, I realized that her constant search for love and acceptance was deeply rooted in the characteristics of her zodiac sign.
She explained to me that from a very young age she had had a need to feel loved and protected.
She recalled times in her childhood when she longed for her parents' attention, but often felt ignored.
As she grew older, this search for love and acceptance carried over into her romantic relationships.
The woman told me that, as a Cancer, she tended to be very emotional and sensitive.
She was always willing to give her all for her partner, but often felt disappointed that she was not receiving the same level of love and commitment.
This led her to question her own worth and feel that she was never enough.
I explained that, according to astrology, Cancers tend to be very intuitive and emotional.
Their need for love and security is an intrinsic part of their being.
However, they also find it difficult to express their true feelings and communicate clearly, which can lead to misunderstandings and frustration in their relationships.
I advised her to work on her self-esteem and setting healthy boundaries in her relationships.
I encouraged her to express her needs and emotions assertively, so that her partner could better understand how important it was to feel loved and valued.
I also recommended that she surround herself with people who would support her and make her feel special.
The woman was grateful for the advice and promised to work on herself to find the love and acceptance she longed for.
As I continued my motivational talk, I remembered how important it was to understand how our zodiac sign influences our emotional needs and how we can work on them to find happiness in our relationships.
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