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18-07-2022 19:52







  1. Seduce your Cancer man with these 5 tips:
  2. The family man
  3. Tips for seducing your Cancer man
  4. The negative aspects of Cancer seduction
  5. What you face

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What matters when dealing with Cancer men is to have the patience to wait long enough for them to open up and welcome you into their world, from a romantic perspective.

They are incredibly shy and quite afraid of being hurt, so these Water element natives will shut themselves away in a shelter of their own, until someone manages to open their airtight shell.


Seduce your Cancer man with these 5 tips:

1) Use scents and light in romantic surprises.

2) Combine assertiveness with a little seductive shyness.

3) Cook him a meal and introduce him to your domestic space.

4) When you disagree, choose your words wisely.

5) Show her that you can stand up for yourself.

These natives will expect you to take the initiative and help them overcome their fears, to love them unconditionally, to offer them security, stability and, above all, constant affection. However, when they break their chains, they will become truly loving individuals.


The family man

This is a very difficult sign to approach, because the Cancer man tends to have a really sensitive personality. He is introverted, so make sure you don't go to great lengths to steal his heart, because he may feel threatened and block his heart immediately.

Be patient with him, take your time and tell him directly and without stylistic embellishments what you plan to do for him. Sometimes you will have to say it more than once, but make sure he understands.

Also, be careful of his needs, because he can be compared to a detective when it comes to finding love, so if he wants to have a relationship with you, that means you are his life partner.

As strange as it may sound, Cancerians are very close to their mothers, to the point where they could be called mama's boys. They care a lot about their family, and that's a good sign for people who want a future relationship to progress far beyond the boyfriend-girlfriend stage.

So, if you want to impress these natives, you can drop a hint about your own mother, about how the relationship between the two of you couldn't be better.

This will make them form a different perspective on you, and it will be quite good. Also, those who want to approach them, as if they were really close, should consider asking about their mothers as well. It is something they will remember that you have done.

This zodiac sign loves food without a doubt, and even more, they love cooked food, so if you tell them that the best skill you have is cooking, or that you love spending time in the kitchen, Cancer will be fascinated.

To compete for the heart of a Cancer man, you have to be a homebody, and that means that cleaning must be a priority for you, and you have to do it regularly, because he loves to stay at home and clean in his spare time, thinking that it is a relaxing and enjoyable activity.

And, in fact, it should be a relaxing activity, or at least something your partner does without too much hassle, because it will offer great rewards for doing it.


Tips for seducing your Cancer man

These natives are very emotional and have many feelings hidden in their big heart, feelings that are very complex, deep, and to which they attach great importance.

It would be a shame for them to overlook these emotions, to do something that goes against their own nature. Therefore, if they were to have a conversation with people who pretend, or lie, or who prefer not to show their true face, it would quickly drain them of all their energy.

They like people who are direct, natural, honest and who say exactly what they think, at the exact moment they feel the need to do so.

These natives are also very affectionate and compassionate to all those around them, so indifferent people would not fit their criteria at all.

This sign is incredibly fascinated by the historical beliefs of their family past. Therefore, he respects them more than anything else, and wants to apply a traditional life to himself. Therefore, he cannot admit to spending his future with a non-believer or an exhibitionist woman. He is a true romantic man and a real food lover, so he will combine these two characteristics when he meets his love.

That's why you should expect him to take you out for long dinners, moonlit walks or to a fancy restaurant. Also, if you want to impress him, you don't need to buy him expensive gifts. A simple meal in your home is enough to make his love for you grow.


The negative aspects of Cancer seduction

You know you are working with a very traditional man, so if you only want a one-night stand with him, you might as well give up. He is looking for a strong, peaceful and happy marriage that offers him a rich and rewarding life.

Don't play with them and don't try to hurt them, they will smell your intention and take revenge.

If you want to live a beautiful life with a Cancer, respect their feelings and beliefs, and don't try to get rid of those possessions that have sentimental value to them. Even if they are useless, it is better to ask first, because they may have great nostalgic value for them.

Cancers are not the most sociable people of the zodiac, and in fact the opposite is true. They are certainly not very fond of parties or large social gatherings, and if they have to go to them, they are of the traditional type.

Sober, simple, dignified, that's how they prefer their partners if they really have to attend such events, so if you had in mind to try on that new mini skirt or sleeveless shirt, you'd better think again.

In general, however, they prefer to avoid these things altogether, because staying at home, reading a book or watching a movie with their loved ones, will always be a better solution than having to traverse the social boulevards of the world.


What you face

The point here is not that Cancers are very difficult to seduce, or that they have high expectations that must be met before looking at a potential partner, but that you must be perfectly aware of what you are signing up for.

Although they may play hard to get, because it is in their nature to be cautious and self-conscious, when they manage to let go of those worries and come to trust someone unconditionally, then they release all their deep emotions.

And those emotions are very complex, intense, passionate and perfectly reflect his inner self. It's going to be a three-way relationship, as his mother is going to play an important role in it, but it's going to work out in the end.

The Cancer man is very grumpy and gets annoyed if he is criticised. He has a very big ego, so you have to choose your words very carefully.

If you defend him, don't think that he will change, or that he will be aware of his wrongdoings. No, he will think that you have found a reason to make him feel bad, and he will take revenge for it.

You have to expect him to remember those words, even years after he has said them, because he is very stubborn and has a long memory.



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  • The Cancer man is giving me signals that he would never have anything with me.

    Hello! ? I understand that you feel disappointed and confused about how the Cancer man is behaving. Their emotional nature often leads to mixed signals, so it's completely normal to seek advice.

    Cancer men are known for being very sensitive and perceptive. It may happen that he gives you signals that are unclear or interchangeable. Here are some thoughts and tips you might consider:

    1. Talk openly: Try telling him how you feel. ? You could ask him a question about his feelings towards you and observe his reaction. Do you prefer honesty?

    2. Understand his emotional side: Cancers need time to open up. Try to be patient and show him that you are a trustworthy and gentle person. ?

    3. Pay attention to his behavior: Monitor his behavior in different situations; sometimes he may just be reacting to the situations around him and has no intention of hurting you.

    4. Show interest: Share activities that he enjoys – Cancers love emotionally deep and personal experiences. This step can strengthen your bond. ?

    5. Consider your feelings: It's important to pay attention to your own emotions as well. What do you feel with these signals? Is it important for you to assume and hope for something more?

    When it comes to relationships with a Cancer, it requires a certain amount of patience and understanding from both partners. If you have any specific questions or situations in this area, I’d be happy to help! ?
  • The Cancer man is only texting me and he wrote that he would never go out with me.

    I'm really sorry that you're facing this situation. ? It's definitely hard to hear something like this, especially when there are feelings and hopes for further development. Let's think together about what this might mean and what possible steps you can take.

    ### Possible Explanations ?‍♀️
    1. Comfort vs. Real Feelings: A Cancer man may feel comfortable writing, but he might not be ready for personal contact, possibly due to fear or nervousness.

    2. Relationship Concerns: He may have concerns about a real commitment and therefore prefers to stay in conversation only. For Cancer, it's important to feel safe and stable.

    3. Personal Situation: He may have his own issues that prevent him from taking this interaction to a personal level.

    4. Lack of Interest: It's possible that things haven't developed as expected, and he may hold back from the possibility of personal contact.

    ### What Can You Do Next? ?
    1. Acceptance of His Decision: If he clearly stated that he would never go out with you, it's important to accept this information. Sometimes it's better to focus on people who are open to the possibility of developing a relationship.

    2. Open Conversation: You can talk to him about what you want and how you feel. Ask him about his feelings and the reasons for this statement if it's important to you.

    3. Self-Care: Focus on your mental health and happiness. Don't forget to spend time on activities and with people who bring you joy.

    4. Consideration of Future Interaction: If his stance is final and you don't feel joy or fulfillment from it, it might be time to think about whether it makes sense to continue this interaction.

    Remember that you deserve a relationship and communication that fulfills you and makes you happy! ? If you have any more questions or need support, I'm here for you. ?✨

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Today's horoscope: Cancer


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