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Ranking the zodiac signs by who is the most relaxed partner to who is the most possessive.

Which do you think is the most possessive sign in the horoscope, and the least? Here we set the record straight....
Author: Alegsa
06-10-2020







1. Aquarius

You are as relaxed as they are. You want complete freedom and control over your life, and you're more than willing to extend that same freedom to your partner. Heck, you encourage it. You don't always access your emotional side, so it can be easy for you to detach from people, and you tend to be so distant at times that even those you care about most can be forgotten, so maybe try to seem at least a little more invested? Please...

2. Sagittarius

Easily one of the freest spirits of the zodiac, you want that chance to enjoy all that life has to offer - and this doesn't change once you are in a relationship. You are known to be very easygoing and go with the flow, and have no interest in being possessive of your partner or their constant whereabouts. You also tend to be very optimistic about your partner, so you don't even like to think about the option that they might break your trust, but you prefer to believe and hope for the best, so that's exactly what you do.

3. Libra

Although you are the sign of marriage and partnerships, you are not really a possessive person in your relationships. You are either all or nothing, you are completely involved, knowing that your partner is on the same page, or if they seem distracted or not paying attention to you, you will pull away equally. You are all about balance and harmony, and for you to be possessive and exert a ton of energy over your partner and their whereabouts is simply a waste of time.

4. Gemini

You are not really a possessive person, because you are an incredibly independent sign who thrives on living your own life and focusing on yourself. You don't like to get too attached to people in the first place, and even in relationships you tend to keep parts of yourself held back, so when it comes to your relationships you extend trust and space for your partner to be themselves, in the hope that they will do the same. Although you may have bouts of jealousy from time to time, they are very few and far between.

5. Pisces

Do you want to be possessive? Honestly, yes, more or less. You have a lot of emotion and love that you want to shower your partner with, and you make strong connections easily with those you have your eye on. The thing is, you're always worried that you'll push your partner away with your behaviour, and if you're too clingy you know it's a surefire way to make them want to take a step back. If you could get away with being possessive of your partner, you would, but as it is, you just take a deep breath and choose to believe that your partner won't run away or betray you.

6. Virgo

You try to act nonchalant, but when you're really in love that doesn't happen, does it? You're so invested in your partner that you can't help but notice if they seem a little distant, or if their attention seems fixed elsewhere. You like to try to fix things, but you're really trying to give your partner space, so your internal battle of overthinking while trying to keep your cool can be quite stressful, but overall you trust your partner.

7. Capricorn

You work hard for everything you earn, so it makes sense to be possessive to some extent. However, earning your partner's love and affection is a little different, and you recognise this. You tend to be fiercely protective of your relationships, but you also tend to be pessimistic about your results, so you can often become quite possessive about your partner and how you spend your time. However, you believe that the crux of relationships depends on trust and loyalty, and you go out of your way to believe that your partner will come through in these areas.

8. Cancer

You don't like to be a jealous person, we know that. But you care so much about your partner and your relationship, that you can't help but be overprotective from time to time, and of course your sensitive, over-thinking nature doesn't help in that respect. You don't want to appear too clingy, but you're also constantly fighting feelings of jealousy, and this rears its ugly head from time to time.

9. Aries

When you invest in a relationship, you are all in or nothing. When you are all in, you want your partner to give you their undivided attention and focus on you (just as you do with them). You like the idea of conquering and winning the affection of your love interest, so if they seem to be looking elsewhere even remotely, things can get pretty heated, and fast.

10. Taurus

You have a strong need for security and comfort, and do not hide this fact from anyone you date. Although you don't mind trusting your partner, you also have a strong desire to have control over the relationship, just as you like to plan and control the rest of your life. Try not to be too overbearing, but if you feel that your partner is not as involved as you are, and even more so if they are more involved elsewhere, you can become very possessive very quickly. No one is going to have your partner's attention if you have a say in the matter.

11. Leo

When you decide to get into a relationship, it's a big deal, and you want everyone to know about it. Your possessive streak isn't so much about jealousy as it is about showing everyone what's yours... you make it very clear that you're in a relationship and you want to show everyone and anyone. Although you can get a little jealous if you don't feel you're getting enough attention from your partner, this is more about your image than anything else.

12. Scorpio

You won't even deny it... you know you have a big jealous streak, and it shows. You won't let your walls down for just anyone, and even when you choose to leave someone, you have a tendency to be paranoid that your partner will betray you, exactly as you fear they will. Although you don't like to be controlling, you have no qualms about being possessive of your partner and your relationship, in your mind, they are all yours or nothing at all.



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